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💔 My Experience – It’s Just Not Fair 💔

Lately, I’ve been going through something that really hurts. People have been reporting my account just because I’m not replying to their messages and now my account is getting flagged.

It’s painful because I haven’t done anything wrong. I’m not ignoring anyone out of disrespect; sometimes I’m busy, sometimes I just need peace. But instead of understanding that, some people choose to report me for no reason.

Now I’m being punished for simply minding my own business. It’s not fair. I’ve worked hard to build my account, my name, and my reputation. Seeing it all at risk because of false reports breaks me.

To everyone out there please remember, silence doesn’t mean arrogance. Sometimes people are just tired, busy, or going through things you don’t see. Be kind. Don’t ruin someone’s space out of anger or misunderstanding.

I just hope this situation gets fixed soon. I don’t deserve this. None of us do. 💔
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SouthernGuy1987 · 36-40, M
Sorry that this happened to you. People need to be much more respectful and understanding about people's personal life and issues going on. How long have you been here on SW?
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
It seems to be the way it's all going these days. The tools that have been put into place to discourage bullying and perversion are being used by perverts for bullying.

Do you ever use reddit? Its a thousand times worse over there. Over there, unpopular truths are downvoted out of existence so that popular myths prevail.

My prediction is that it wont be long before red is the new blue. I'm not speaking politically, but why not. That's a great example. Look at the way antifa operates. I dont see a difference between their actions vs those of the jack booted thugs they claim to oppose. I'm noticing that their tactics are more dissuasive than persuasive and they push the more centered voters over to the right side of politics (right vs left, not vs wrong).

Over time, those voters opinions will affect the politicians, causing them to take more consideration of blue ideologies, or vice versa, who knows for sure. ..but thats an example of how red may become the new blue. ..look at what's going on in Texas, a red state. It's being invaded in slow motion by Californians who are being dissuaded from being Californians any longer, mostly due to hard left politicians and their solutions (more tax) to California's problems, or the lack there of.

I don't know how I got here from where I started but that's usually the case here on this app for me. I apologize if I drifted too far off course. As for the issue of the power of flagging, it's a problem. If you flag everybody you have a disagreement with or misunderstanding, soon enough you'll be surrounded by people who think exactly like you and you will never grow. Not you personally. Anybody
I'm sorry to hear that. This place does generate a lot of reports i'd wager. I try to be understanding when others don't respond because i also don't often times.
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Not replying isn't against the Terms of Service, so there is no option to report you for that, nor can you get a warning for that.

Are you sure the reports aren't about your identity? Perhaps a more abstract profile picture would solve that. We've had too many people pretend to be a porn model that you can't really blame us for not believing you're the real Mary Moody.

Anyway, I hope your second start will be better and that you'll enjoy your time here.
Theyitis · 36-40, M
Just an observation, nice but real-looking women between the ages of 22 and 35 never last very long here. They almost always get banned within a few days. Maybe some of them are catfish, I don’t know, but it’s hard for me to believe they all are. Sad to say, but you might have better luck if you use something other than a picture of yourself for your profile pic.
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Pretzel · 70-79, M
We have had a bunch of fake accounts and sadly the real people get painted with the same wide brush.
Sorry that's happening to you
Magenta · F
Do the reports have something to do with your identity / profile image?

I see it is on several other web sites.
nevergiveup · 61-69, M
PM me if you want someone to talk to
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@nevergiveup But she literally just said she doesn't reply to people. Why do you think you would get the golden key for access? You state it under "friendliness" but seriously, it just comes off as you didn't bother to listen to her saying she doesn't want contact.

If you aren't going to listen to the most basic and simple statement of "I don't reply", why would she want to speak with you after you've ignored what she said? You just come off as someone not worth speaking to.
nevergiveup · 61-69, M
@FoxyQueen LOL i am just sad, Ignore me
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@nevergiveup Sure thing! But also, maybe think before you post as to how it comes off?
This being your first and only post, how did people get to know you to report you.. I wonder..
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
@in10RjFox other accounts obviously
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SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
Not seeing any flags on your account. Your account looks pretty brand new.
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
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FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
How dare a young woman not respond to men who don't deserve her attention simply for existing!

🙄

Seriously. The audacity of mediocre men who think they are entitled to a woman's attention is astounding.
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
Hence why people are a huge waste of energy.
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
You can still post so I think you’re okay

 
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