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Some people here are odd

I've only had this account for about 3 days and already a few people messaged me.. only to say hello and nothing else.

Is that odd or is it just me? Maybe its just because I'm anti-social and expect people need/want something from me whenever they talk to me...
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skmokisses · 46-50, F
Well welcome to SW!! It's a mix bag around here. If you replied and didn't get anything back I would simply let it go and not worry about it. If you engage I am sure you will find your niche here.
skmokisses · 46-50, F
@Peter85 and judgemental
Peter85 · 36-40, M
@skmokisses yes they really are, people don’t even respond to my messages
skmokisses · 46-50, F
@Peter85 I have never understood that. I respond to all my messages. Now I will say not everyone who messages me ends up being someone whom I connect with. But they still deserve the decency of a reply. 🤗
twiigss · M
I had messages like that before. Hello. And I reply back with, Hi, how's it going? That's how I grew up. Being outgoing. Someone says Hello to me, I don't see any harm in replying to that.

Now if my reply opens up some thing where the person tries scamming me, then they get a block. I just try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt first.
Stephie · 22-25, F
Be glad that they just say hello and don't ask you for nudes.

Yes, this is a thing here on SW. As soon as there a new female face, some males just jump on the occasion to want to trade nudes.

Just be cautious with whom you chat privately. Not everyone is who they seem to be. If you take a minimum of precautions, you will be fine. Welcome to SW and be safe.
@Stephie yeah, I'm well aware. I don't privately share pictures online period.

Stranger danger was a big part of my upbringing and I barely trust people regardless of irl or online
DrWatson · 70-79, M
I ignore any stranger who leaves a message of "hello" and nothing more.

It is probably the case that they send those messages off in bulk to lots of people, and then they wait and see who will answer.

Often, the people who do that are hoping for sexual interactions.

If you are anti-social, you might consider setting up a "message introduction" explaining that you will not engage in messages with anyone until you feel you have gotten to know them fairly well through public posts and comments. Anyone who starts to message you will see that introduction first.

One other thing you should know: if someone messages you for the first time, that person cannot send another message until you answer. So if you never answer, you will never receive a message from that person again.
@DrWatson yeah, i honestly forgotten about the message introduction thing. Will be taking care of that later 👍
JackBoston · 46-50, M
I’m new too but I’m sure you get more messages than I do.
skmokisses · 46-50, F
@JackBoston Welcome aboard ...... keep arms and legs inside while the ride is in motion. 🤪
JackBoston · 46-50, M
@skmokisses definitely will keep that in mind
@JackBoston oh, what makes you say that?
TurtlePink · 22-25, F
Welcome to SW 🤣
JackHoff · 46-50, M
@TurtlePink You got that right. 😂
@TurtlePink I've been on SW, this is an alt account
SledgeHammer · 46-50, M
Haha......
Lot of people looking for someone to talk to.
@Pitchblue lots of lonely people on here is something I've noticed...

Well, they seem lonely atleast
Ramrod · 46-50, M
Well ,no age or male or female,im not going to talk to someone without knowing that info ????
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
Lol no its not odd. They threw the ball into your court and expect you to toss it back by responding. Whats so odd about saying hello? When you pass people on the street do you ever just say hello?
@AngelUnforgiven ... no. People don't talk to me unless they need/want something from me.

My last "friendship" was just someone who had their own insecurities and used me to feed their ego until they felt confident in themselves and then they left.
Convivial · 26-30, F
It's people saying hello... You'll reply if you feel like it
Kiesel · 56-60, M
Some? Many are odd

It’s either hello or a thesis! lol
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
It gets weirder
Nightwings · 31-35, F
You are not antisocial, you are asocial.
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@oldguy73 I'm saying this in the least mean/rude/offensive way possible... but maybe it's because you're old
aimei · New
this website is fucking weird lol
@aimei oh yeah, definitely

 
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