And The Rollercoaster Continues

Having to take care of and watch a love one deteriorating before your eyes is extremely painful.
I have experienced it three times mother,father,mother in law.
Watching your spouse or significant other has to be on another scale.

Sister is still on rollercoaster of wanting him one more day and just wanting him to be out of pain.
All hopes of a recovery long gone.

On the pain meds he sleeps as they wear off he is troubled,agitated, sometimes, and mostly confused.

Glimpses of the old Greg come out occasionally when he manges to say something coherent and what a false hope it sometimes brings!

This cancer is a monster.

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LadyGrace · 70-79

Honey you're in my prayers and everyone involved. My heart so goes out to you. I just want to cry for you and your family. My sister's going through the same thing with her husband and it's just so sad. He has cancer as well and he's just barely making it and he knows he's deteriorating. It's just so sad to watch. He's wanting to give up. I pray that God will give you peace and comfort during this time. I sure wish there was something we could help you with. You are both and all loved. Please feel free to talk about it with us anytime you want. We may not have the answers but we can sure pray for you and listen because we do care and love you and your family. I will keep you in my prayers. ❤❤❤ Lots of hugs. You're not alone. God is with you and so are we. I pray that will bring comfort to you.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@LadyGrace I really appreciate your kindness.🫂

LadyGrace · 70-79

@Justmeraeagain Anytime. And if you're not a person that wants to talk about things that are spiritual that's okay too. I won't mention a thing. I'm just here to be your friend and help you get through, okay? You can lean on me and tell me what's hurting you and I will listen. I may not have all the answers and I'm sure I don't, but I'm a good listener. That I can do.

Blondily · F

Im so sorry for the stress your family is going thru. Its something we all worry about will happen to a loved one. I hope when he goes, he goes peacefully and that soon your family can heal. I went thru three deaths with my parents and niece. It was very hard. Best wishes to you all.💐

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Blondily Thank you

Kygirl · F

@Blondily

My heart goes out to you, I understand the pain of losing people you love and that you need in your life.
I cared for my mom a short period of time when she was diagnosed with cancer, then my dad moved in with us and I cared for him for almost five years after my mother passed away. He passed away from COPD and he had never smoked a cigarette in his life. Nothing was harder than watching him trying to breath.

In the last few years I've lost two of my brothers a nephew and several first cousins.

I'll be praying for you find the strength that you will need to get through each and every day.

💞🙏🏻💞🙏🏻💞🙏🏻💞

Blondily · F

Thank you so much@Kygirl
I guess you and I have been thru too much heartache. My heart goes out to you too my dear.🤗🌷

Kygirl · F

I'm so sorry that you all are having to go through all of this 😢😢😢😢. God only knows what we're going to have to face before we pass.

I hope you have a great support system, I know that nothing could be worse.
My Prayers will go up for you and your family.

💞🙏🏻💞🙏🏻💞🙏🏻💞🙏🏻💞🙏🏻💞

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Kygirl Thank you so much

Musicman · 61-69, MVIP

Yes it is. I am so sorry your family is having to go through this. You and your family are definitely in my prayers 🙏🙏🙏

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Musicman Thank you ❤

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Justafantasy Sorry for your loss

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