Snail · 36-40, M
It takes to long as well as causing the person to think about and process the situation. Most of us dont want to deal with things on a deeper level oooorrrrrr they dont care and dont feel like they need to explain, not their buisness.
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22Michelle · 61-69, T
@silkydrawers Now that's always a good idea.
in10RjFox · M
I relate this as "Soul stripping and frisking". This is the way that they steal ideas or methods by overpowering. Once I got to know of this, I never let someone supervise or interrogate me. I simply subdue them with superior knowledge or ask them how much they know about the subject.
Alorajade · 36-40, F
@in10RjFox i had a situation last year where my choices was questioned by bullies that clearly didnt understand the subject. They wanted to use this case to call me negligent. When i layed it out for them i got such a childish responce that it took all my will power not to laugh in their faces.
in10RjFox · M
@Alorajade that happens quite a lot here too .. often most of them forget that this a written medium and just type like the way they talk. What I do is use their text and point out errors and comment on it. And they just simply delete all of their text .. as it exposes their mind .. 😀😀😀
Colonelmustardseed · 36-40
No. Looking back on moments when I did things just because I could, I don’t think I was ever questioned. I never had to explain myself for it.
22Michelle · 61-69, T
My " explanation" has always been "seemed like a good idea at the time".
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ViciDraco · 41-45, M
I have not really experienced this. I have a bad habit of trying to explain how I arrived at a bad decision. Not as a way to excuse it but to establish that it seemed rational at the time and that I am neither an idiot or cruel. I don't know why i care so much that i don't want people to think those things of me, but I do.
I tell people to never question my actions and words, I have my reasons.