Why is it so hard to talk here?
For a “social site” alot of people seem really antisocial, except for those with a circle of friends.
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dominateofyou · 61-69, M
@helenS Oh No not you I dont believe it .
thinkingoutloud · F
It can be a challenge, there’s lots of “interesting” characters around here, so you have to be willing to just consistently jump in by posting and/or answering and commenting until people get to know you. Sitting on the sidelines isn’t gonna work unless you happen to want to be more of an observer. And that’s fine too.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
Yeah, I’ve been here a while on and off, but I don’t always see things I want to get involved in, but even when I do I’m not given much encouragement to continue doing so.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
@OlderSometimesWiser Definitely not here as an observer, and question why I am here often enough to not be here too. I try to get involved but just feel like I won’t find what I’m looking for from my experience. When I was on EP, the original SW, my experience was entirely different, so that’s where my expectations come from I guess.
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exexec · 61-69, C
I avoid politics and other controversial topics, and I usually keep quiet if I have nothing to add to the conversation. I do enjoy a lot of PMs with my old and new friends.
Vestorius · 41-45, M
I think it is a matter of not having a formal education.
Sorry, but it's Reddit or Twitter to me, not a social site.
