what kind of men blocks you only because you didn’t reply on time ?🙄🙄🙄
learning new things everyday,lol 🫠
Caleidoscope · F
@TexChik actually yes !Also what should my reaction be like ?block him back or react as if I don’t care ?
Renkon · M
Everyone has time to reply.
The only question is does the other person matter enough to warrant a quick reply.
In this case, I am guessing he didn't matter enough for you to reply quickly. There is nothing wrong with it. Your choice.
But in that case, should it bother you if he blocked?
People don't like to feel being not mattered. It's normal.
My opinion - Just let it go.
The only question is does the other person matter enough to warrant a quick reply.
In this case, I am guessing he didn't matter enough for you to reply quickly. There is nothing wrong with it. Your choice.
But in that case, should it bother you if he blocked?
People don't like to feel being not mattered. It's normal.
My opinion - Just let it go.
bijouxbroussard · F
@Renkon It’s online. This isn’t a dating site, yet that happens here. And everyone does not have time to reply. There are people here with families, children, etc., who peek in here when they have a spare moment. They don’t owe some random stranger who decided to message them anything.
Renkon · M
@bijouxbroussard Your point exactly. As you mentioned, their family and life matter most. And that should be the way too. It's ok for not replying in time. It's entirely upto the person to whether reply or not, in the first place.
We are all strangers here. And if someone blocks you, it should be ok. What is there for you to lose.? some chats with some stranger?
The issue is people are emotionally invested in this. That's where it hurts. To the person whose text was not answered, And to the person who got blocked. It's just a tiny bit of emotional give and take. If you can handle that, nothing is a problem.
We are all strangers here. And if someone blocks you, it should be ok. What is there for you to lose.? some chats with some stranger?
The issue is people are emotionally invested in this. That's where it hurts. To the person whose text was not answered, And to the person who got blocked. It's just a tiny bit of emotional give and take. If you can handle that, nothing is a problem.
bijouxbroussard · F
@Renkon At least one guy is guilty of doing this serially, and what he does is, after the briefest of interactions if she’s not at his beck and call here, he calls her rude and blocks her. I feel sorriest for the women who go to the trouble of posting about it, because they think they did something wrong. And the guy knows that he upset someone, which was probably the goal. Your advice
My opinion - Just let it go.
was excellent.
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eMortal · M
It’s new trend. The anti-simp trend. Apparently it’s an attempt to even the power dynamics in relationships.
You reply late. They ghost or block you.
You don’t reply, they don’t double text.
They ask you for a date and you say you’re gonna think about it. They’ll never ask for your answer later on.
You go out on date 2 times and you don’t contribute, the next time they’ll split the bill.
In general if you don’t reciprocate they stop giving or ask you directly to meet then halfway if they actually care about you. But most would just ghost you.
You reply late. They ghost or block you.
You don’t reply, they don’t double text.
They ask you for a date and you say you’re gonna think about it. They’ll never ask for your answer later on.
You go out on date 2 times and you don’t contribute, the next time they’ll split the bill.
In general if you don’t reciprocate they stop giving or ask you directly to meet then halfway if they actually care about you. But most would just ghost you.
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@Caleidoscope He's training you to see if you are suitable.
Caleidoscope · F
@MarkPaul interesting but what’s on his mind?
perceptivei · 36-40, F
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@SW-User thought youd say something funneh 😫
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bijouxbroussard · F
Someone not worth any of your time or concern.
If a total stranger can’t grasp that you have a life outside of social media and will reply at your convenience, that’s a red flag. You don’t owe them a reply at all.
(This is common behavior for a couple of posters here. Don’t take it personally.) 🙂
If a total stranger can’t grasp that you have a life outside of social media and will reply at your convenience, that’s a red flag. You don’t owe them a reply at all.
(This is common behavior for a couple of posters here. Don’t take it personally.) 🙂
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