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So is there a valid reason for not messaging new people

(not sure if this is for people titled "new" or if is is for people we haven't messaged before)

sure seems like it is limiting conversations
SilkenMist · 46-50, F
One is that they are bots, two is that almost all of the new accounts are 18 to 21 and it's pretty unlikely that they are even 18 years old.

If you're going to get personally involved with someone on here or start messaging it's probably best to stick with the established members. I will probably catch hell for saying that but I just feel like it's a safer option
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
I will greet everyone Welcome to the circus, but I am not here to dm. And I expect no one to force themselves to dm me just because I'm fairly new here.

I have to admit reading below here, I'm a bit suprised how paranoid everyone is that every new member is fake/ a bot /alt or not someone worth contacting. I don't think we should automatically avoid new members. SW isn't a sect. 😂(Right?) 🙄

I'm a simple woman. New as old. Just talk to anyone you feel like talking to.
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
I'm not a people person so that is my valid reason 🙄
20Twenty · M
@LilPrincess I call bull pucky on that!!
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
JohnOlinger · 41-45, M
Might be for people we havent messaged before wheather new or not new
SilkenMist · 46-50, F
@JohnOlinger I feel like if it's a so-called new account but it's actually an established member that we have spoken with, they will probably let us know in private who their old account was, I've had people do that a couple of times
JohnOlinger · 41-45, M
@calicuz . @SilkenMist this limit thing sucks I have to wait awhile to message new Groupies
SilkenMist · 46-50, F
@JohnOlinger yes, I remember all those wonderful Q-tips and coffee beans you gifted me when I was brand new. I was like what the hell is this crap?
Fishy · 31-35, F
New or not new, I tend to not message anyone unless we've interacted a few times on the public forums and I feel confident enough that they're not a creeper 🗿
calicuz · 51-55, M
Probably so the "NEW" people don't get bombarded by the pervs.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
@calicuz I kinda doubt they are protecting anybody - I think it's a bold money grab
Pretzel · 61-69, M
@startingover23 revenue enhancement
Lilnonames · F
When the ship is sinking you will do any thing. @startingover23 @Pretzel
Lilnonames · F
@Pretzel buy more coins for nonexistent games
akindheart · 61-69, F
I do not friend or talk to anyone who has nothing on their profile. they are usually alts
I figure it's because some people are abusing it. They don't deserve the privilege.
SmoothKnight · 51-55, M
I never message new people.
Yes because they fake fucks

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