I'm gonna wind up like my aunt near 70 and never married no kids just an old spinster.

Marriage isn’t everything. I have learned to live very well without it.

Don’t hunt for pearls in a pigsty.
If you can’t find love, perhaps you’re searching in the wrong places. Go somewhere new. Do something unfamiliar. Meet people who see the world differently. But above all, reshape yourself—because the love you seek may first require the person you’re becoming.

Maybe. Have you asked your aunt if she's happy with her life choices?

keep hanging out and taking advice from here and that will be a guarantee

I would think this way many many years ago. But God is the best planner.

Same

With that mindset, you certainly will. You're always always so negative & you need to change that.

It seems that's the case for me to. 😒

The 90’s were fun ☺

Its not so bad.

What is it that makes you think that?

Anytime I hear the word "spinster" it makes me imagine a female mafia member or some lady wearing a zoot suit.

We,,,,,,,,,,,, could live in sinner together & just enjoy it

or maybe you'll get lucky when you're 69