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Never give a man money. Right or Wrong.

Ick. I just turned 31 years old. I don't have time to date a man who always need money. I am not desperate for love, sex, friends. I have never gotten paid back. Plus we never lived together. He said you are supposed to help. I was so tired of being the man in the relationship. God please keep broke men away from me. I want to be spoiled for a change. I pay back. Is too much too ask for God?
He broken up with me for not giving him money.
Shakealot
31-35, F
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bijouxbroussard · F Best Comment
being the man in the relationship
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This is 2026, nobody should be freeloading. But yeah, someone who always needs money is a bad bet.

And unless he’s "put a ring on it”,you’re not committed to help him with anything. You’re not seeing that money again unless you sue him for it.
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Shakealot · 31-35, F
@bijouxbroussard Yes. I won't be giving out money unless I get married.
Yes, I won't ever see it again. I accepted that.
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bijouxbroussard · F
@Shakealot Thank you for BC.
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PhoenixPhail · M
If that's his reason for breaking up with you, you're so much better off without him.

He didn't love you. He loved your money.
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MisterBander
Wow, that is pretty cold, what kind of guy does that? He must have only seen you as a wallet.
There are lots of nice guys around, you just haven't found him yet. It will come.
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Shakealot · 31-35, F
@MisterBander Yes, he laughed at me and ghosted me when he promised to pay back.
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Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
He’s using you since he broke up with you for not giving him money

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I’d never date a guy who asks for money .
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mossyboots · 51-55, F
I would want to know why a man would want me to give him money. He should have his own!
If he broke up with you for not giving him money, good riddance. How shallow is he?
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smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
@mossyboots maybe he is a little short on money for a bill. Or between jobs at the time
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mossyboots · 51-55, F
@smileylovesgaming Yes, could be. As long as a guy doesn't get into the habit of asking for money otherwise he is take advantage and comes to expect it of you.
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smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
@mossyboots u can't just not pay your bills. Kind of like rent or gas in the car
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pituitarypendulum
I never give anyone money if I don't have it to give. I only give it without expecting it back .
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smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
Well u two was in a relationship why would he have to pay back
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Levenrack · 46-50, M
@smileylovesgaming Your cluelessness is showing hon, let the adults talk.
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smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
@Levenrack if my boyfriend or husband needed a little money I wouldn't ask him to pay me back
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Levenrack · 46-50, M
@smileylovesgaming You have a wonderfully huge heart and god bless you for that.
That's not the point. Nevermind the circumstances of how much and why you borrowed out the money, as in it wasn't a gift to your new boyfriend, it was borrowed to help him (or her, this can go both ways). And, then they completely ghost you after the fact....

You'd just shrug your shoulder and say to yourself "Oh well, it was a wonderful relationship while it lasted"?
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Nunki · 31-35, F
Good riddance. He was using you. Glad that you could see it
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Teslin · M
Well, you should have broken up with him as soon as he asked for money. You are better off.
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Shakealot · 31-35, F
@Teslin Yes. I should have. He said he used me. This is why you cannot be nice sometimes.
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Holden · 31-35, M
I mean women do this to men all the time, more than men do to women, sooo...
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Levenrack · 46-50, M
I'm pretty sure God has nothing to do with it. You just need to start doing full background checks, on these scrubs.

I'm kidding. Or, am I? 😉
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Shakealot · 31-35, F
@Levenrack Yes. He said he used me. This is why you just act like you don't have money, so you cannot be used.
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Levenrack · 46-50, M
@Shakealot TBH, that's not a bad ideology to follow in general, not just in dating situations.
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jackson55 · M
Never give or loan money that you can’t afford to loose to anyone.
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Shakealot · 31-35, F
@jackson55 Yes, I will not ever do it again. He said he used me.
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jackson55 · M
@Shakealot Happens more than you realize.
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xtnkt · M
You'll be better off in the long run
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Pretzel · 70-79, M
why the hell does a grown man need money???
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NortiusMaximus · M
@Pretzel Probably for the same reason grown women often need money.
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Shakealot · 31-35, F
@MayorOfCrushtown Right. I wish I never give them money. Being too nice and now I'm blocked and laughed at.
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