Never give a man money. Right or Wrong.

Ick. I just turned 31 years old. I don't have time to date a man who always need money. I am not desperate for love, sex, friends. I have never gotten paid back. Plus we never lived together. He said you are supposed to help. I was so tired of being the man in the relationship. God please keep broke men away from me. I want to be spoiled for a change. I pay back. Is too much too ask for God?
He broken up with me for not giving him money.

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smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

Well u two was in a relationship why would he have to pay back

Shakealot · 31-35, F

@smileylovesgaming He needs to pay back because it is my money that I worked hard for plus he said he was paying back. Like what? Are you serious?

Shakealot · 31-35, F

@smileylovesgaming We were not even married. 😂Yes, he has to pay back. Idc..I can sue him. I have bills too.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

@Shakealot but u two was in a relationship

Levenrack · 46-50, M

@smileylovesgaming Your cluelessness is showing hon, let the adults talk.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

@Levenrack if my boyfriend or husband needed a little money I wouldn't ask him to pay me back

Levenrack · 46-50, M

@smileylovesgaming You have a wonderfully huge heart and god bless you for that.
That's not the point. Nevermind the circumstances of how much and why you borrowed out the money, as in it wasn't a gift to your new boyfriend, it was borrowed to help him (or her, this can go both ways). And, then they completely ghost you after the fact....

You'd just shrug your shoulder and say to yourself "Oh well, it was a wonderful relationship while it lasted"?