Never give a man money. Right or Wrong.

Ick. I just turned 31 years old. I don't have time to date a man who always need money. I am not desperate for love, sex, friends. I have never gotten paid back. Plus we never lived together. He said you are supposed to help. I was so tired of being the man in the relationship. God please keep broke men away from me. I want to be spoiled for a change. I pay back. Is too much too ask for God?
He broken up with me for not giving him money.

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bijouxbroussard · F Best Comment

being the man in the relationship

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This is 2026, nobody should be freeloading. But yeah, someone who always needs money is a bad bet.

And unless he’s "put a ring on it”,you’re not committed to help him with anything. You’re not seeing that money again unless you sue him for it.

Shakealot · 31-35, F

@bijouxbroussard Yes. I won't be giving out money unless I get married.
Yes, I won't ever see it again. I accepted that.

bijouxbroussard · F

@Shakealot Thank you for BC.