Never give a man money. Right or Wrong.

Ick. I just turned 31 years old. I don't have time to date a man who always need money. I am not desperate for love, sex, friends. I have never gotten paid back. Plus we never lived together. He said you are supposed to help. I was so tired of being the man in the relationship. God please keep broke men away from me. I want to be spoiled for a change. I pay back. Is too much too ask for God?
He broken up with me for not giving him money.

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TimiD · 41-45, M

Helping a partner is one thing, but feeling used is another. A healthy relationship should have mutual support, not one person carrying the financial burden. And if someone doesn’t have money yet, they should at least bring value, qualities like effort, discipline, and ambition that can be nurtured and eventually create stability or wealth 🤔.