sex is overrated and nasty.

You might not like "sex" and some people do find love-making it personally over-rated, unpleasant, meanlingless or needless.

Nevertheless the mating act is the natural reproductive mechanism for most of the Earth's animals - including our own species.

Flowering plants too, though of course needing the intercession of insects etc. to carry the pollen to other blossoms. I was rather amused to hear a biologist speaking on the radio, insouciently remark that "To a flower, a bee is a 'flying penis' "!


Yes, sexual intercourse and human sexuality generally are subject to terrible abuse, from rape as a war weapon to the mere fact of humans being male or female being used to excuse cowardly discrimination and "coercive and controlling behaviour" ( to quote the Law) - by one sex towards the other.

However, if you imagine a god invented all life you need accept that the same god invented sexual reproduction to maintain that life.

So being "pure" - i.e. rejecting normal human reproduction - is not being "holy" at all; just the opposite, really!

i dont know why it feels like a sin... it's how the world is populated
but boy does it ever.

It was created by a Holy God for procreation and so in itself it cannot be a sin or nasty. However, its abuse will make it what you say.

So...you're not getting any, correct?

Yes, it is. However, it's also natural and God given

Well Jesus had sex before he got crucified soooo