I love being single

@zonavar68 Yes, very well said.

@SJones48 I get it.

@novaguy2u that’s great to hear. Nothing wrong with having your own company. I can understand that as well.

@in10RjFox First of all, if a relationship is nothing more than just a game, then I don’t want it. I’m not interested in playing games with people, I am way too old for that. Secondly, I wouldn’t walk inside of a burning building knowing that the stakes of me getting hurt, are very high. Having a relationship doesn’t mean happiness. Before being in any successful relationship, you have to first find comfort and love within yourself.

And what if I am the horse, and didn’t like the way I was treated? So what? And so what if I have a fear of getting hurt again? Theirs is still nothing wrong with taking time to figure yourself out, and choosing to be happy self love, over a relationship, that may or may not fail.

I’m sorry that you don’t know what self love feels like.

@Jackhoff So true

@Wizardry agreed. The freedom is amazing.

@NaturalBeautyQueen especially for being nude as well

@SmileOnYourBrother I don’t know if I would call being in a relationship a reward lol. They cause too much pain and drama in my opinion. 😂

@SalttyDawg That’s fine if that works for you, but personally for me, that’s just not my thing.

@NaturalBeautyQueen
I understand. It’s difficult for some to separate love from sex

@SalttyDawg Yeah

@Barebum61 😂

@AgentOfChaos I cannot go through those again 🫣

@Ashly Yes, I’ve been single and celibate for going on 10 years, and its been the best decision, I’ve ever made, because it has led me to focus on self love. It can be difficult at first, but you’ll have to decide on what would you prefer.

@NaturalBeautyQueen I can’t do that ☹ I want a husband and kids and even tho I’m single now I never loose hope, even though some days I feel like they may not happen 😕

@Donotfolowme I can understand that.

@Northwest Self love is learning and knowing to love yourself.

@NaturalBeautyQueen
If you mean to accept and appreciate all parts of yourself, including flaws, by practicing self-compassion, setting healthy boundaries, taking care of your physical and mental health, recognizing your strengths, forgiving yourself for mistakes, and treating yourself with the same kindness you would show a loved one; essentially, building a positive relationship with yourself where you feel worthy and valued regardless of external factors, great.

But being in a relationship doesn't preclude you from doing that. The former gives you a better shot at getting into a healthy relationship.

@Northwest That may be for those that want a relationship. For me, having a relationship does not interest me. It’s been almost 10 years, since I’ve been without a relationship, and I like where I’m at.

@Moneyonmymind I’m sorry to hear that about your mom pushing you. I had to put my foot down with my family and tell them, that I’m not interested in dating anybody.

@NaturalBeautyQueen i get she wants me to be happy but not everyone is meant for dating