I love being single

Never imagined, I would ever say that, but I do. Yes, I have been hurt way too many times in relationships in the past, and because of that has dragged me further down. I will not go down that road again. Staying single and practicing self love, has allowed me to protect myself from ever getting hurt again and to be cautious of others. For the first time in a long time, I see my own beauty from the inside and out. Since focusing on myself, I can fully say that I completely understand what true happiness and true love is, because I have found it within myself. I love myself so much.

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Northwest · M

What is self-love?

NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F

@Northwest Self love is learning and knowing to love yourself.

Northwest · M

@NaturalBeautyQueen

love yourself

If you mean to accept and appreciate all parts of yourself, including flaws, by practicing self-compassion, setting healthy boundaries, taking care of your physical and mental health, recognizing your strengths, forgiving yourself for mistakes, and treating yourself with the same kindness you would show a loved one; essentially, building a positive relationship with yourself where you feel worthy and valued regardless of external factors, great.

But being in a relationship doesn't preclude you from doing that. The former gives you a better shot at getting into a healthy relationship.

NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F

@Northwest That may be for those that want a relationship. For me, having a relationship does not interest me. It’s been almost 10 years, since I’ve been without a relationship, and I like where I’m at.