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ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F
No. Although I do believe he is still trying to hang on to me.
We talk every day, multiple times a day…he is consistently sending dirty/expectant texts…and he will still make comments about the future which invariably include me in the picture…he sends me pictures of his ‘plans’ and blueprints for the house he is going to build at the acreage (trying to entice me back??)
It’s a very confusing time for me because I still love him very much. He was my best friend for 8 years…but still, no.
It didn’t work out for very valid reasons.
I would be a fool to think it would be different now.
We talk every day, multiple times a day…he is consistently sending dirty/expectant texts…and he will still make comments about the future which invariably include me in the picture…he sends me pictures of his ‘plans’ and blueprints for the house he is going to build at the acreage (trying to entice me back??)
It’s a very confusing time for me because I still love him very much. He was my best friend for 8 years…but still, no.
It didn’t work out for very valid reasons.
I would be a fool to think it would be different now.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
@ImpeccablyImperfect I'm sorry it worked out that way. You are correct. People are who they are and never change. I hope your heart heals sooner than later. You're a sweet lady. 🤗
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
No second chances for an ex. Better off alone. No matter how much it hurts to be single when you opine about how you can't show your young child what a loving couple relationship is like. But no women in their 50's are interested in a single dad with a daughter in his care.
sunriselover · M
When my first fiancée contacted me after twenty nine years, it was like talking to a ghost.
We had been to together for two years, we were 21/22.
She asked about my mother, who had been dead sixteen years.
I had to reconstruct vague memories of the past. Good ones.
But it was then I found out she had two timed me with one of her lecturers. That would have hurt, had I found out at the time. But I would have moved on with my life a lot faster too.
No, reassess, adapt, move on.
We had been to together for two years, we were 21/22.
She asked about my mother, who had been dead sixteen years.
I had to reconstruct vague memories of the past. Good ones.
But it was then I found out she had two timed me with one of her lecturers. That would have hurt, had I found out at the time. But I would have moved on with my life a lot faster too.
No, reassess, adapt, move on.
Jemimapuddleduck · 31-35, F
@sunriselover Why after so long, I wonder?
sunriselover · M
@Jemimapuddleduck There was a social media site called Friendsreunited when the INTERNET started.
She found my name on there.
Unhappy marriage. Her husband was a control freak. She was not even allowed her own email.
I met him once.
He used to give her a lift from her Uni to mine.
She found my name on there.
Unhappy marriage. Her husband was a control freak. She was not even allowed her own email.
I met him once.
He used to give her a lift from her Uni to mine.
smiler2012 · 56-60
@Jemimapuddleduck well i suppose it depends on the person if they are prepared too let bygones be bygones and why and what terms the relationship finished on
RopinTexan · 31-35, M
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
thenormalkindofcrazy · 31-35, M
NerdyPotato · M
sarahcupcake · 36-40, F
lovelyguy143334 · 31-35, M
Jemimapuddleduck · 31-35, F
@lovelyguy143334 Lol, what??
lovelyguy143334 · 31-35, M
@Jemimapuddleduck she wouldn't left
For making work it out in future 😜
For making work it out in future 😜
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
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JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
Applepiedom · 56-60, M
NatureGuy77 · 51-55, M
chasingThursday · 36-40, M
SW-User
Hell no. He made it very clear he didn’t care about me or my feelings. I have to be shown that only once
ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 46-50, M
ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 46-50, M
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