Are you a forgiving person? I am to a extent. But if they don't want to be forgiven and just...

I try to be, when I feel it’s appropriate. And when I’m being unnecessarily stingy about forgiving, I remember how I hope some very important people in my life can forgive me too.

Unefilletrescurieuse · F

Yes. It may not come over night but if the offense is bad enough, I’ll forgive as quickly as possible as I’m able to do so…

One must forgive to be forgiven. Having said that forgiving someone does not mean you have to camp out with them or they have to be in your life! 🙂 (Just my thoughts)

YoMomma ·

When i can i am.. forgiveness is an option and not something people should take for granted … you can only forgive someone who committed an offense and that may or may not be a good idea.. forgiveness is a kindness . And it’s nice to have for both parties.. but some people are abusers

Prince0217 · M

I find it hard to forgive. I don't take revenge or give out negative energy. I don't dwell on that.
I'm a real person. I don't claim to be perfect. Forgiving is just too hard sometimes.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

Yes, I do forgive,but it doesn't mean that I keep going around somebody who is toxic and won't change their ways.

HijabaDabbaDoo · F

If you met me 5-6 years ago I would say I was TOO forgiving, now I give people the benefit of the doubt once but have firm boundaries

hunkalove · 70-79, M

I used to say, "Always forgive, never forget." But I've found in my old age some things can't be forgiven. So I just move on.

nick030 · 31-35, M

Yes I am... But people have been taking me for granted recently and have been pushing me to become a non-forgiving person. Maybe they will get what they want.