I dislike the attitude of a victim.

True victims, those that have been actually victimized, don't even behave like the "victims" we see on a daily basis. Some people enjoy the martyrdom, the victimhood, because it makes them unique. Of course, they downplay actual victims, but who cares right?

There are faux victims, and real victims. We seem to have whole populations of faux victims, these days.

This site loves it lmao

Just be grateful that you don’t walk in their shoes

woe is me.
give me hugs and attention

Yep, most of what I see are those just wanting attention or have hurt egos so every little small insult or trivial social media negativity towards them is claimed as abuse that they go on about for months. It makes the insecurity feel validated.

Real legit victims won't be behaving that way most times

To create circumstances and then to play the victim ......

It can be frustrating but it might help to know that people who are stuck in a victim mindset often have been victims in a traumatic experience and as a result their brains project that automatic trauma response in everything, even online interactions because from their perspective, they're still experiencing said trauma and doing everything in their power to survive. This happens automatically for people with personality disorders. And can happen automatically to people with low self esteem and or low self worth.

There are victims, and then there are [b]survivors[/b].

Probably inappropriate, but suddenly thinking of expressive victimhood all I can picture is Lebron James and his whining, pleading antics on the basketball court when a ref calls a foul on him. The man looks like he's actually in pain because of the unfairness of his life.

Yes, I work with one. So frustrating. 🙄

Come up with one original thought please