I dislike the attitude of a victim.

@bijouxbroussard Wouldn't a survivor be both?

@ChipmunkErnie Not all define themselves as both.

@bijouxbroussard True, but you can survive without having had something to survive.

@ChipmunkErnie Having been a victim doesn’t necessarily mean continuing to define oneself as such. Some people prefer to describe themselves as [b]survivors[/b].

@bijouxbroussard yes, of course. Never mind, you missed my point. I give up.

@ChipmunkErnie Yeah, I admit it. I wasn’t seeking any argument.