Are thin people ever attracted to fat people?

@Nightwings Ok, I was just telling you things that you know can happen. In my own life experience, such a thing did happen. My maternal grandparents were married right after high school and stayed together till my grandma died. Perfect picture, wouldn't you say? My grandfather passed away less than a year later. He was a decorated colonel in the US Army, the pillar of the family and respected figure in town. A woman turned up at his funeral to claim his pension. Apparently, she had been his mistress for years while grandma was still alive and married my grandfather just after she died. Everyone in the family was flabbergasted. It was exactly like what happened in the movie "Bridges of Madison County".

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@sree251 I'm sorry to hear that, I can definitely see how that could have instilled a serious fear in you. I have been cheated on myself (by my ex) and it's not fun. But I think the important thing to remember is that we are all just human, mistakes sometimes happen, and while it hurts like hell, it isn't something that will tear a person apart unless they let it. It's important to have a strong sense of independance, and friends that you know will show up for you, so that if something like that does happen, you're going to be able to get through it. Hiding yourself from other people out of fear of getting hurt often leads to loneliness and depression. I was initially confused why you even brought up cheating, but yea it's definitely a risk that comes with trusting another person on such an intimate level.

@Nightwings You've got it right: we are all human. So, instead of letting something like that happen and having to get through it, I deal with loneliness and depression. This way, I don't need someone in my life to distract me from that misery.

@AthrillatheHunt You are a braver man than me.

@sree251 nah, a spectacular pair of boobs just makes me totally lower all other standards

@AthrillatheHunt My man, no pair is spectacular without the exquisite backdrop of a slim waist, svelt legs, and gorgeous face.

@Theyitis
What is it that you want from the woman? If they say they just want to be friends, that means they don't want you to have what you want from them.

@sree251 A date, and potentially a romantic relationship. I’ve never been in a relationship before.

@Theyitis Well, then you need to have something that women want in exchange for what you want from them. This is a raw business deal; so don't fluff it up with romance. Women don't fall in love after 18. And they don't fall in love with guys older than 18. After 18, it's the hunter and the hunted. Not good, and chances are such relationships end up bad.

@MsSwan How fat, to you, is too fat to be attracted to?

@sree251 Chubby is ok, but not obese.

@MsSwan Chubby?

@BrandonWyatt36 You prefer big whites? Strange taste.

@sree251 Bruh... Let me explain one thing... The ONE Skinny chick I dated i mentioned... When I "Slept" with her... That Boney sh*t hurts... I won't lie LOL I learned real Quick why I preferred Bbw LOL... That's NOT the ONLY reason I date Bbw but it has a big part to play in it LOL

@BrandonWyatt36 Was she skinny black?

@StygianKohlrabi A little extra weight? Man what's wrong with you?

@sree251 I'm not afraid of a real woman, with a small amount of extra weight are you?

@StygianKohlrabi Shit yeah. No extra weight has ever come with a real woman.

@romell No role playing can hide physical reality.

@sree251 it's not role playing it's the individuals character

@romell If you can be distracted by the individual's character, then you are not keeping your eye on the ball.

@Katie01 I agree.

@jshm2
You don't define them. You recoil.