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Goodlatch · 61-69, M
Negotiator. Solver. Avoider. Depends on the circumstance. Definitely not an instigator. Old enough to know not to expect people to live up to my expectations. I have no right to expect someone to fit my mold of them. I’m not the molder. I just need to accept them for who they are.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Goodlatch If I know I'll win I go through with it till the end.
Goodlatch · 61-69, M
@Rilyn Feisty huh? I’ll watch and enjoy the fight and clean up the mess at the end.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Goodlatch The only mess there will be is yours 🔥 😂

I spectate which is the toughest of All.
@Rilyn I need the superior emoticon now.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Lyfis2live 🔥 you don't even know the definition of superior 🤣
@Rilyn Carry on with Your day.
Torsten · 36-40, M
i dont initiate conflicts. I wont step away from them though
@Torsten lies
Torsten · 36-40, M
@Notladylike how so?
SW-User
I’m a negotiator, I hate conflicts but I’ll stand up for what I believe in.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User Thats how it should be.
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
@SW-User
Rilyn · 31-35, F
Gaslight. Forever gaslight 🔥
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Degbeme Oh..you have no idea 😏
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Rilyn Well I thought I did, but apparently I don`t. 😐
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Degbeme It's good. But I ve evolved.
SW-User
I don't tend to be either one or the other. I tend to just go my own way. I don't really like arguments.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User Not unless I bring out the trident and my guards.....
SW-User
@Rilyn I'd resort to my ultimate tactic.........pulling the blanket over my head!
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User Oh there's the dungeons for that
Ferric67 · M
Depends, if I'm wronged I would stand up for myself.
More times than not, I find solutions to problems rather than exacerbate the situation.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Ferric67 That's what I usually do also
Both … depends on the necessity of the moment …
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Soossie Balance
@Rilyn

I really hope so .. 🙏🌹
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Soossie 🙏
Alyosha · 31-35, M
I prefer peace and harmony.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Alyosha Don't we all. But lifes not always like this.
Alyosha · 31-35, M
@Rilyn Sad but true. There are too many people who feed on conflict.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Alyosha Yeah
GLITTER · 36-40, F
I hate conflict and try to avoid it. But saying that sometimes it’s good to disagree to learn stuff. So I change my answer to I don’t like conflict with those who aren’t willing to see the other side
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@GLITTER Been there, done that. Took me nowhere. Dude wants to fight let him fight, god knows what he'll explain when he faces the authorities esp those demanding him compensation in damages.....
GLITTER · 36-40, F
@Rilyn sounds like a heavy situation , just keep yourself safe 🤗
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@GLITTER Me and my family. FIght for honor or die trying.
Ferric67 · M
I resolve conflicts, solve problems
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Ferric67 I like the fire
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Rilyn yes I do those things 😇
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout *facepalm* who doesn't. I seriously need a solution.
4meAndyou · F
I HATE conflicts of all sorts. I can't even listen to two people who are HAVING a conflict because it makes me feel SO uncomfortable. I suppose that's what happens when you live with an abusive man for 25 years.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@4meAndyou sorry you went through all that 🌹 I avoid it at all costs myself lately.
akindheart · 61-69, F
both. I can really let loose if something is not right but i am also good at pointing out what is going wrong.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Rilyn i never open my mouth if i don't know what i am talking about. I might lose but they know where they stand.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@akindheart If my facts are proven I got no problem stating so.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Rilyn me too.
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
You mean would I attempt to approach a disagreement with some coolness and maturity rather than what seems to me to be explosive immaturity?
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@PhilDeep You know how it goes then. You're in disagreement, I am too. None of us are negotiating or reaching agreement so let's go to court and see whose right and wrong. Plus the money involved. I'm so annoyed.
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
@Rilyn Sounds like a huge pain in the arse if courts are involved. I hope you succeed and then can get away from them, whoever they are.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@PhilDeep He bcc's me on email saying I blackmail him when I haven't talked to him personally in over a year. He insults my lawyer in writing, he backtalks to someone else and fought even with him ,who I handed my case over to because I stepped back after he insulted me after pointing out his irregularities. It's really aggravating honestly. If I was in the wrong I'd just end it there. I'd say look what's done is done. How do we fix this? and maybe things start falling back into place. But no.....he wants the drama and drama costs money.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
*quietly sits and polishes tridents* ;)
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Degbeme Ahhhhh you do a great job there. No need to be told to do it anymore either.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Rilyn Always at your service ma lady. ☺
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Degbeme 🙏🔱
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
I don’t like both being honest cause with conflict with others after that be the biggest conflict between your 2 ears .
And do u the conflict between your 2 ears that comes up very subtle and you nearly be in a straight jacket over it when it comes up 😂😂😂.
Blackness , bitterness , suicidal thoughts , loosing weight , paranoia , so your answer to the question my friend , none of them 😊😊😊 .
Imagine negotiating with the people I know 😂😂😂
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revenant · F
Both. I am not conflict avoidant. Conflict is good for clearing the air and exposing motivations.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@revenant Yeah true that except when it turns unhealthy and ends up in legal.....issues.
revenant · F
@Rilyn oh I have had that...the sheer headaches ! I wish I had just walked away and not looked behind.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@revenant It's on my property and I'm taught to defend what's yours cause no one else will.
SW-User
What about negotiating conflicts 🤔💁‍♂️
SW-User
@Rilyn🧐 Maybe your sleep texting again 💁‍♂️
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User 🔱 I think you're delirious 😏
SW-User
@Rilyn just be something in the tea 🫖 🧐
SW-User
I try to negotiate..
But I'm not afraid of conflict either
SW-User
@Rilyn It's not always about me either ..or things being in my favor ..sometimes it's about defending those who can't defend themselves so it takes someone to step up and advocate for them
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
@SW-User
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User Been there done it. Got me in more trouble than defending myself. So. Me and the family. That's it.
Sometimes I initiate it when I’m bored. I’m a more skilled negotiator though
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Notladylike I'll negotiate if I've got something to bargain from it.
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
val70 · 51-55
Negotiator. In short, I tell people to join an union :-)
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@val70 Give me reasons as to why I'd join your union? Oh right donated money XD *waits for the argument*
val70 · 51-55
@Rilyn Gosh, you haven't seen union protection then? Not my union, but our union. The same with christianity. That simple
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@val70 Lets go on a crusade. May the best win :D
SW-User
I avoid conflicts whenever possible
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User Would be a greeeeattt world to live in.
SW-User
@Rilyn I manage it somehow. Maybe there are times when I shouldn't ignore things.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User Brushing it under the carpet won't make it invisible either.
Elessar · 26-30, M
Depends about what. Certain things are non negotiable.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Elessar Agree 💯 I found notes from a year ago and had written about repeated attempts at negotiation but failing.
I just reply to posts on a public forum.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@LoneVoice I'm not talking about online life O.O
Pitsilizater · 31-35, M
Pitsilizater · 31-35, M
@Rilyn sometimes you have to simply walk away.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Pitsilizater Believe me I'd do anything but this conflict contains obligations and unfortunately it has gone so much of hand I don't see any remedies except consequence. Not to mention the money involved.
Pitsilizater · 31-35, M
@Rilyn my gf is in a situation that sounds similar with her sister and it fucking sucks. Honestly, I can't think of any solutions and their relationship is pretty much destroyed.
SW-User
I don't initiate as much as possible.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User I handed my case over and the offending party is still going at it!
SW-User
@Rilyn It happens.
Iwantout · 26-30, M
Negotiator most of the time
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Iwantout Seems like a lot tend to negotiate.
Iwantout · 26-30, M
@Rilyn it's the best way to get the desired results in most situations
MrEagle · 41-45, M
Generally I’m the negotiator.
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Rilyn · 31-35, F
@PrincessRoarBuddy If you want to speak your mind then automatically you're looking for an argument or reasons for the other party to oppose you.
Goodlatch · 61-69, M
Not that it matters.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Goodlatch 🤦‍♀️
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
Negotiator, for sure
Rilyn · 31-35, F
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
I avoid trouble
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@vetguy1991 does trouble never find you? O.O
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@PhoenixPhail boring
wintersecret · 41-45, M
Rilyn · 31-35, F
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
Rilyn · 31-35, F
SW-User
Come at me bro
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User You call me bro again I'll throw you in the dungeons!
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Neither. I'm the ignorer.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@LadyBronte you can't ignore what's directly affecting you and your legal obligations towards it -_- I think that's what pisses me the most
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Rilyn I can ignore most everything these days. But legal obligations are different. Good luck.
ExtremeNext · 36-40
I do my best to rub people the wrong way
It's fun 🙄
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@ExtremeNext Hell no. I don't need that. Only if you're abusive towards me.
SW-User
I’m a very patient person … I tolerate/ignore until it needs to be put back into its place.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User Psht. Don't preach to me about moral. Not after what I was forced to do, see and still do. It's a load of nonsense. Definitely I feel like I've grown slightly older and understand why people do certain things.
SW-User
Mmhmm … like I said I’m a VERY patient person

We all have our cross to bear.

I’m not your enemy here, I answered your question, if it isn’t what you want to hear then I’m walking away from your angry lil tantrum 😌

@Rilyn
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User Who said I'm angry? o.0 and if you're trying to say I'm having a tantrum I'm very chilled doing it.
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Definitely an instigator… typically in response to rude, aggressive, idiotic behaviour.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
Negotiator. But I'm not afraid to start shit either 🤷
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@ChiefJustWalks I only negotiate when the offending party ends the original dispute. If they keep going, I will too.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@Rilyn honestly I always warn the person to shake my hand & drop it 😂 if they don't then okay 👌 it'll get handled
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I don’t initiate conflicts but I won’t back down either. I am mainly a negotiator.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@iamonfire696 THat's right don't let anyone walk over you. Ever.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Rilyn Exactly 💗
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
I like to initiate conflicts and then get my az kicked
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@pancakeslam GUards. Throw him in the dungon.
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
@Rilyn perfect!

*kicks guard in the nuts*

OW OW OW
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@pancakeslam *watches in amusement*
SW-User
aboriginals eat all the conflicts
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User Throw them some snacks too, they run out of energy pretty fast I've seen O.O
SW-User
@Rilyn
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Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Darksideinthenight2 Plus these cost money. The dude in question does not want to admit he lost. Because of that, and insists on fighting he'll have to face authorities costing US time and MONEY. It's intolerable. Why can't he just shut up negotiate and we are all good to go? *facepalm*
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