Do you initiate conflicts or are you a negotiator?

@PhilDeep Online is peanuts compared to real life. Currently in my life a massive disagreement in my apartment cannot even be negotiated with decently. It's gotten pretty bad.

@Rilyn Sounds like they're being unreasonable and can't be negotiated with. I know that feeling and my long-term plan for dealing with people like that is to be far enough away from them in as many ways as possible to not have to, to the greatest extent.

@PhilDeep You know how it goes then. You're in disagreement, I am too. None of us are negotiating or reaching agreement so let's go to court and see whose right and wrong. Plus the money involved. I'm so annoyed.

@Rilyn Sounds like a huge pain in the arse if courts are involved. I hope you succeed and then can get away from them, whoever they are.

@PhilDeep He bcc's me on email saying I blackmail him when I haven't talked to him personally in over a year. He insults my lawyer in writing, he backtalks to someone else and fought even with him ,who I handed my case over to because I stepped back after he insulted me after pointing out his irregularities. It's really aggravating honestly. If I was in the wrong I'd just end it there. I'd say look what's done is done. How do we fix this? and maybe things start falling back into place. But no.....he wants the drama and drama costs money.