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Are you kind to yourself?

I told me that not everything in the world is my fault and gave me a hug – instead of beating myself up like I used to do. If this was a person I dearly love I'd definitely do the same for them so why not?
akindheart · 61-69, F
no i am really hard on myself.
Asmae · 31-35, F
Yet you are kind to the others @akindheart
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Asmae I sure try to be. thank you
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
That’s great! 🤗
Asmae · 31-35, F
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
Im the only person I am not nice to honestly
itsok · 31-35, F
I try to be. It’s a lot of work, and it feels fake
Asmae · 31-35, F
Trying is the first step to success 🫂
It kinda soothes the pain.
@itsok
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@itsok I will help you with hat pics.
That's one of my 2023 resolutions. I read an entire book related to this. It does work if you do it long enough that it becomes a habit.
Asmae · 31-35, F
Name of said book?
وحشتني🤗
@PiecingBabyFaceTogether
@Asmae انتي كمان 🤗
اسمه فكر تصبح غنيا ل نابليون هيل. قريته بالعربي موجود مسموع علي اليوتيوب. انا سمعته و قرأته في نفس الوقت
val70 · 51-55
Good question. Not at all. And I don't think of myself as an other, let along another, at all. I feel hurt so I have to hurt myself. Not a good thing but it's basically that
Much more than I used to be, yes. Almost everything that I did in my teens to mid 30's was designed to destroy myself.
PrestonJ · 36-40
That’s so true. I need to do that. I don’t acknowledge the good I do, I just focus on the things I do wrong to avoid the criticism
smiler2012 · 56-60, M
{@asmae] never take the burdens of the world on your shoulder as a personal fault of yours as it is far from you too blame
AuRevoir · 31-35, M
The only time I’m kind to myself is when I tell myself “I’m not perfect..” 😷 but don’t tell my haters I said that.. 😷💅
Asmae · 31-35, F
It helps to pay attention to your own feelings. Imagine yourself as a loved one who needs support & comfort. @CrazyMusicLover
@Asmae It's hard to blend body and mind. ☹️ This mind hates this body.
Asmae · 31-35, F
Maybe the focus should be on separating them instead of blending them @CrazyMusicLover
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
Im definitely kind to myself i pamper myself
Nope. I can do that for others but never myself.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Oh yes.
Keep your mind, body, and soul clean always.🙂
Indeed. A very good way to view it. 👍🏽
Wol62 · 51-55, M
You spoke a lot of sense to yourself.
huskyguy89 · 31-35, M
That's a really good way to look at it. :)
20Twenty · M
Far more than I used to be
Gaiia · F
For the most part yes
Ofc. I love treating myself. Why else live if u dont do well with ur self. Ofc not everything is ur fault. 7 to 9 out of ten it someone else's fault. But there are variable to this. Bec sometimes it is the opposite depending who this person is lol. So u see alot goes on haha

 
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