Are you kind to yourself?

no i am really hard on myself.

That’s great! 🤗

Im the only person I am not nice to honestly

I try to be. It’s a lot of work, and it feels fake

That's one of my 2023 resolutions. I read an entire book related to this. It does work if you do it long enough that it becomes a habit.

Good question. Not at all. And I don't think of myself as an other, let along another, at all. I feel hurt so I have to hurt myself. Not a good thing but it's basically that

Much more than I used to be, yes. Almost everything that I did in my teens to mid 30's was designed to destroy myself.

That’s so true. I need to do that. I don’t acknowledge the good I do, I just focus on the things I do wrong to avoid the criticism

{@asmae] never take the burdens of the world on your shoulder as a personal fault of yours as it is far from you too blame

The only time I’m kind to myself is when I tell myself “I’m not perfect..” 😷 but don’t tell my haters I said that.. 😷💅

I don't know how

Im definitely kind to myself i pamper myself

Nope. I can do that for others but never myself.

Oh yes.
Keep your mind, body, and soul clean always.🙂

Indeed. A very good way to view it. 👍🏽

You spoke a lot of sense to yourself.

That's a really good way to look at it. :)

Far more than I used to be

For the most part yes

I try

Ofc. I love treating myself. Why else live if u dont do well with ur self. Ofc not everything is ur fault. 7 to 9 out of ten it someone else's fault. But there are variable to this. Bec sometimes it is the opposite depending who this person is lol. So u see alot goes on haha