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That immediate reaction...

How do you respond to those whom might ask for your spare change on the street? 🤔
I usually say I don't have anything to share, which is 100% the truth with my current spendings. It does make me feel guilty though: if only I made a few changes, I could share a little with others who have it even worse. But those changes are hard...
Trippin · F
@NerdyPotato I hear you... Tough situation... And a difficult question to answer... Even if asked by yourself. 🤷‍♀️
4meAndyou · F
I don't carry change, or even dollar bills. There is a little bit on the door in my car, change from drive thru orders in the past, but I don't like to touch money now.
Trippin · F
@4meAndyou Interesting...And a chain of " handlers" these days indeed changes.... An outlook on...spare change. 🤔
SW-User
I buy food; a sandwich, bottled water
Trippin · F
@SW-User Awesome! Like an even keel that gives..yet avoids advantage.
SW-User
@Grateful4you Exactly. 🥰
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@Trippin Plus honestly I really don't carry cash
I will as most look like they've genuinely been kicked to the gutter by life. Even drop a $20 or a bag of McDonald's or coffee if I can.

Depending, though, you've got to be wary of opportunities to get close enough to rob you of more. Or mark you as the cash cow to hit up every time you're in the neighborhood.
@Trippin Yep. Definitely.
I went for a walk in January up a quiet street, must have been 5 or 10 below. A guy in a thin nylon shell jacket..like a track and field warm up windbreaker, was clutching the handle of his shopping cart, bent over it. Head down kicking the asphalt because of the bitter cold. His possessions were in it. He'd been trying to duct tape a flashlight underneath it so cars could see him.

I was bundled up, snug as a bug. And thinking of the warm house and all its love and security I'd just stepped out of.
Really wanted to drop my coffee and some bills in his cart...but.
That stuck with me.
Life's a bugger.
Trippin · F
@SethGreene531 Hell of a bugger at times indeed. 🤗❤️
@Trippin 😞😔
Lacemaker · 41-45, F
It depends how it's done and if I actually have loose change.
I used to pass a homeless guy on my way to work, come rain or shine. He never approached me but I got into the habit of dropping some money into his dish now and again, especially when it was raining or bitterly cold.
If people approach me, I'm a bit dubious.
Trippin · F
@Lacemaker I get that. That drop in heart pressure when an action of empathy for another VS a sad sales gimmick. 🤔
I rarely have spare change on me. These days I pay using the app on my phone, or by using my credit cards. If I have some spare change tho, I'll usually let them have some.
Trippin · F
@SapphicHeart Could just about write a book called Change...Indeed Changes. 🤷‍♀️
@Trippin
Changes indeed, not all for the worse tho. Coz of better hand hygiene, and awareness of sneezing into the sleeves instead of into the air it seems like we are about to say bye to a few of the influenza variants. There'll likely be more positive stuff to mention, but this was in an article I read today. That's something? But yea, it leaves us with no spare changes. 🤷🏼‍♀️
Trippin · F
@SapphicHeart Good stuff....and well said. ❤️
LadyJ · F
If i have it i usually give it..you have to be pretty desperate to ask for spare change from a stranger in the street, so if i can help i will
LadyJ · F
@Trippin Exactly..we never know what others are going through
Trippin · F
@LadyJ Absolutely.
LadyJ · F
@Trippin
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
Depends where I am. I pretty much never carry cash anymore anyways so usually it's in an I'm sorry.
Trippin · F
@Turtlepower Cool.... I know I trust my guts beyond a doubt.
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
@Trippin Same. It's all you can do sometimes.
Trippin · F
@Turtlepower Truth💯
HannahSky · F
I used to give some when I was living in a more urban area. Now I don't get asked often. There's a group of gypsies that stake out the shopping centers, but I'm driving by at that point and I don't give to them.
Trippin · F
@HannahSky Yep... Sometimes we just don't cross their path. Who knows🤷‍♀️
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Divided... Sometimes it's a case of wanting to help and others it's why not help yourself...
Trippin · F
@ozgirl512 It is a hard question... Many variants to consider. The ones I like to ask...🙂
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@Trippin I have picked up on that 🤔
Trippin · F
@ozgirl512 🤗
Londonn · 36-40, M
I don't wanna break hearts but I always want to say "bruh who carries a change nowadays".. tho I carry couple papers specifically to give to one of those amazing street musicians :) love them all!
I never share with others information like that. I will simply say, I try my utmost to share what I have.
Trippin · F
@Grateful4you Yep. Straight CIA stuff fo' sho'.
@Trippin I feel terrible about the homeless. I hate people who tell them "Get a job!" not as easy as that.
Trippin · F
@Grateful4you Certainly! My reply wasn't intended as snarky I assure you. Reading a book about difficult honest questions. 🤷‍♀️
Darkskiescoming · 51-55, M
I share what I have but never really have much change in the truck. I will be happy to grab them a burger if a place is close by.
Trippin · F
@Darkskiescoming Cool. Its the open minded thought that you just never know what is going on with that individual that matters most perhaps.
Darkskiescoming · 51-55, M
@Trippin So true. Never know what caused them to be homeless and on the street. Most of the time it is beyond their control.
BalmyNites · F
I can’t walk on by, I have to give 💜
Trippin · F
@Darkskiescoming Awww... You know.... Me too. They didnt prejudge me. Trust me, I was straight strung out crazy as shit. Issues...drugs...booze...on the streets. No picnic to invite into your backyard. 🤷‍♀️

But change... Changes. Regardless of how we pass it round'.
Darkskiescoming · 51-55, M
@Trippin They saw we we see here. Your huge heart and you were in need.
BalmyNites · F
@Trippin One small act of kindness… amazing 🤗💜
I mostly ignore as this happens many times a per day in downtown Wash DC and I am a cynical person. I have a couple of charities I budget for but that's about it.
SW-User
all depends on the person in question
you can usually tell the bag heads from the genuine homeless
Trippin · F
@SW-User Certainly 🤷‍♀️
SW-User
@Trippin there are groups near me who are seasoned beggars who are there and take it in turns on certain pitches just so they can get drug money
they live in flats close by. those I would never even look at
JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M
I smile and wish them a wonderful day

And occasionally I’ll offer to buy someone a sandwich
Trippin · F
@JoeyFoxx Cool
i rarely have cash on me, but i almost always have food and change on me so i give them that
Trippin · F
@claypigeons Awesome. I will honestly admit there have been times in my life where as 50 cents altered my entire day. Truth.
Starchild1983 · 41-45, F
If I have it I give it to them and if I don’t I tell them sorry I don’t have any
I give them bills if I have extra. Not all these people are scams
Trippin · F
@mondayschild2 Yep.... They are out there. Sadly, on both counts ❤️
If I got cash on me
Trippin · F
@checkoutanytime Right on. Buck to change a day? For a beer or not... Have at it. 🤷‍♀️
@Trippin I've had bad days, I can cough up 5 bucks to brighten someone else's day.
Trippin · F
@checkoutanytime Hell yeah. Sometimes I don't have shit to share... Smile and some non judgment might help. 🤷‍♀️
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
If I have change, I'll give it to them.
Trippin · F
@thepreposterouspanda Me too. 🤷‍♀️.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
I usually give them some if I have it
Trippin · F
@vetguy1991 Good for you man ❤
DeadSophie · F
I have no money…only greens
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
I've only had it happen once. We were outside of an Outback Steakhouse. He asked for a dollar to get something to drink from McDonalds. I gave him $10 and told him to get a full meal. Sucks being hungry. I hope that's what he spent it on
Trippin · F
@TheLordOfHell Good for you man. Plus, even tho' I do as well.... Only decisions we can make are our own. ❤️
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
@Trippin Awe thank you. And you are right
No, and it’s the truth. I’m a retiree, and have virtually nothing that’s “spare” in terms of change.
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@bijouxbroussard I love working in the kitchen there! I want to help for the holidays again.
@bijouxbroussard I really respect you for doing that my love!
Trippin · F
@bijouxbroussard Thats awesome!! Truth. To give back is not only measured monetarily.
PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M
Wish I could say I was a good person who helps all who need it, but I'm not. I usually try to get out of that situation as soon as possible.

I know there are those who genuinely need that money and would make good use of it, but at least in the broader area I live in I've seen more than enough of fake, "organized begging". It has been part of eroding my trust in those who roam the streets. Bad seeds ruining it for the good ones, but I can no longer tell them apart.

That combined with not having all that much income myself and a fair dose of social anxiety, my immediate reaction is that I want nothing to do with it and want the quickest route out. 😕
Trippin · F
@PirateMonkeyCabinet Feel no shame! Not intended to provoke it my friend. Just in terms of social interaction.... That one is oftentimes a toughy. 🤷‍♀️
PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M
@Trippin I appreciate that.
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Trippin · F
@LvChris Right on... 🤔
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
Walk on the other side of the street 🤭
SW-User
Those type of unfortunate people I never see in streets as it against the law. The police take them to shelters for food & care.
Trippin · F
@SW-User Interesting...🤔 Homelessness is a violation of the law?
SW-User
@Trippin Begging on the street is a violation of the law.

https://www.redcross.org.au/get-help/community-services/homelessness-services

https://www.cityofsydney.nsw.gov.au/volunteer-programs/volunteer-goods-donation-directory

https://homelessnessaustralia.org.au/

https://www.dva.gov.au/financial-support/income-support/help-buy-property-or-find-accommodation/homelessness-support
Trippin · F
@SW-User Yep... Panhandling. I get it.
swirlie · 31-35, F
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When they say those two words to me... "Spare change?" as they ask with a question inflection to their voice while holding a cup full of change in my face...

I always respond with, "Oh, no thank you! I already have plenty of spare change, but thanks anyway!"[/c]
@swirlie you play the vic who are you kidding?
swirlie · 31-35, F
@checkoutanytime
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And you've always played the victim role too![/c]
@swirlie I'm qualified to be your boss more so than you are qualified to be my boss, I 100% guarantee it.
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I'll usually give what I can, if I have anything to spare
Trippin · F
@SW-User I see that in you. Truth. Not that it would be bad otherwise. I dont judge..... But....well...




Yaaaaay! ❤
tenente · 100+, M
i can't remember the last time i bought anything with cash i never have spare change on me. i do volunteer in my community whenever i can, so i give back that way.
Trippin · F
@tenente Awesome!!!! Never belittle that which you DO..do❤


( I said do do)
tenente · 100+, M
@Trippin do do 😂 lol

 
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