people hurt me and then i apologize to them

@HannahSky yes. and if i get upset bc they were mean to me i apologize for that as well bc then it makes them more upset and i feel guilt for that

@Frostcloud it's such a viscious cycle with fights or anything negative with people. For some reason we can't just let it be when it's bad. Someone always requires an apology instead of saying they were wrong. Guilt doesn't mean you're wrong, you just feel bad.

@LordShadowfire this has definitely been the case with some people whether they realized they were doing it or not. but i'll do this to the greenest of flags as well

@Frostcloud That's because you're traumatized. You've become convinced that your feelings are not valid, even when they are.

@Ducky the crazy part is i think i did after my nightmare ex bestie/roomie situation

@Frostcloud I hope you know deep down that it’s not you, but them.

thank you @Ducky