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What is one thing you don't like about yourself and what are you doing to change it?

For me it's impatience and the solution is to approach every situation one step at a time
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F Best Comment
I need to work on being more patient but it’s hard
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@iamonfire696 Absolutely :)
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User thank you so much for best comment 💖
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@iamonfire696 My pleasure :)

gummybears · F
Pfff
I’m a damn perfection 😎
Mooed78 · F
My insecurity and not believing in myself.. that was because I was treated in a certain way for so long.. I am a work in progress..
Convivial · 26-30, F
@Mooed78 I believe the sistene chapel took a little while to complete too ...
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@Convivial Very true
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@Mooed78 you're working in the right direction
and with the right people around you you will become that person you once were x
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Ditto. @Degbeme
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
I don't like that I get into pessimistic views of my future so I focus on not treading into gray areas. Realistically I know that future means "hasn't happened yet" and imagining things does me no good and is silly. I don't want to talk myself into living an imagined future instead of letting it unfold as it does. I have minimal control over any outcome:)
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@ravenwind43 I totally get that
I'm too wonderful, kind and charming, and generous and thoughtful for my own good.
I need to be more narcissistic.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@Ghostinthemachine You are also good-looking, amazing, and astounding. I barely deserve to speak to you! 😁
@ravenwind43 I know, but I thought if I mentioned those qualities I would come across as conceited.
And you are always welcome to speak to me. The lineup starts to the right 🤭
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
I want things instantly. And that isn't realistic. I need to be more patient and not give up when I don't see instant results
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@DeluxedEdition Sounds exactly like what I am going through
throughTheMotions · 51-55, M
I have a tendency to be over-accommodaring, which I find most people are quite happy taking advantage of but often don't appreciate.
palmtree · 22-25, F
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I take everything personal, and it makes me really cold.. Like if someones tone changes I think that they're tired of me, and I'll leave that person before they leave me. Therapy, lots of therapy.
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@SW-User You got that right
palmtree · 22-25, F
not setting clear and firm boundaries with people. i'm trying to do that now and trying to be more open and honest:)
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@palmtree Yes, boundaries. Somehow I need to improve on that too
palmtree · 22-25, F
@SW-User it takes time and effort but it's really important!
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@palmtree You got that right 👍
Sometime I get short tempered with my mom because she is a controlling lady…

I’d like to get more patient with her and that needs a lot of practicing…
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@Soossie It truly does. Too bad mothers are set in their ways, it is hard to be patient with someone like that
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
My weight, have done some food changes and must get back to the gym.
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@Jeephikelove That's a great goal, especially during the holidays
Lumberjack70 · 56-60, M
How I look. But, sadly, it is what it is. So, i try to work hard and be nice instead.
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I'm too perfect in every way I don't know what to do ...
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@SW-User Nice
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
Absolutely, positively have no willpower.
I have impulse control issues that go hand in hand with that.
I actually don't think I'm doing anything to remedy those issues because that would take willpower and the ability to control impulse.
It's a double-edged sword.
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@Dainbramadge Very well said
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My completely damaged and fucked up brain
fun4us2b · M
I'm overly tolerant..
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@fun4us2b me too
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I dislike my anxiety which makes me act awkward and make mistakes. I am trying to calm myself down before I react to situations where my anxiety becomes triggered.
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@SW-User I can definitely relate. Meditation is helpful for me to calm my mind of this useless anxiety :)
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@SW-User yoga can help as well.
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@SW-User Oh, I forgot about yoga :)
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@restlesskind ] funnily enough i am impatient at times with people but i am trying hard to be more tolerant and understanding especially at work
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@smiler2012 Yes, me too. Work is definitely a test of your patience
Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP
I'm not good at letting myself off ..or giving myself a break . I'm always holding myself accountable.

For the slightest of things ..even 😏
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@Kae20 I totally get that. Sounds like one of my insecurities
ravenhill · M
i'm easily offended, so i have to learn patience and better tolerance of people.
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@ravenhill That should be a new years resolution
There's a few things but.. I'm not doing anything and thats the problem..
Henal · 26-30, F
I constantly doubt myself.

I’m not really sure how to change that tbh.
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@Henal That is challenging
Anger.

I am Not doing as much as is expected by others to control it. No regrets! At all.
CommandLine · 56-60, M
Too many to mention. Dodgy heart to start with.
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@CommandLine I get it
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
Anger my brother, it's a factory fault though.
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@YMITheWayIM I would have to improve my anger as well
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
I have tourettes and i am stills struggling to change it
Sirena · F
Can’t even put into words… 😏
Seriously, my tendency to procrastinate with stuff. I could show you a list of just this weekend’s projects…
I’ll get back to you. 😅
Iwillwait · M
I am with you, I have little patience....
I overthink and sabotage myself, so I am trying to catch myself and stop that bad habit before it leads to sabotage
No matter what I try, the new styling products just aren't working out.
Curse my limp hair and this horrid weather.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
I am a hermit
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@SkeetSkeet Sometimes I can be that way
Bang5luts · M
Wise. Mine is not taking things so serious. And solution is to post nonsense on response to all stressful situations I am exposed to..
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@Bang5luts I like this. Reminds me of favorite cartoons I watched as a kid
Bang5luts · M
@SW-User same. And it was during good times of my life when life was less stressful
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@Bang5luts Amen to that :)
My stomach and how I let that dictate how I feel.

 
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