My old high school crush messaged me and my guyfriend said it’s a bad idea to message him back.

So earlier today, my old high school crush messaged me saying that it’s been a while since we saw each other and I looked better than I ever was back in high school. I look beautiful and sexy. He never said that when I was like 250-230lbs. I’m down to like 199lbs! My guy friend reminded me how mean and obnoxious he was to me and called you, me and us “retards” because we’re “special needs”. First of all I don’t like the term “special needs” and second of all, he wasn’t that mean. My guy friend said, “How could you forget? When you went to prom with him, he completely abandoned you to hang with his friends and never even payed any attention to you. He danced with you but he left you behind and didn’t even say goodbye when he left. No way you would forget that. We ended up dancing together and I hung out with you with my best friend. I asked you to prom four times and you said no and I warned you it was a bad idea to ask him.”

I told my best friend this and she said if my crush treated me like garbage and abandoned me then he doesn’t deserve a response. I mean people could change but I personally wouldn’t message him. She also said our guy friend has always looked out for me and I’ve been too busy paying attention to a guy that I obsessed with that didn’t care about me.

Should I text my old crush? He got a little chunky but he’s still handsome.