Kind of angry about a messed up thing

A friend of mine was short on her rent she visited me a month ago after work and she was crying saying she going to be homeless this and that and asked to barrow money. I dont like to lend anything but gave in and loaned her 500 for a month well since then she has been ghosting me and not replying to my texts or even coming around. Its not about the money all the way i know her for 5 years so kind of feel betrayed as well i am out the 500 bucks so its like a double stab in the back. I am angry about it.
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Any input guys?

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twistedrope · 26-30, M

500$ to know she's not trusworthy is an okay price. Just imo keep to your guns and know that friendship is over.

I'm harsh on people who can't keep promises, harsh on people who can't be honest and very harsh on people who ghost.

I befriend adults. Not children.
I don't expect perfection, I expect someone to front up.

It's the lesst they could do.