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LaylaTheTallGirl except she recognizes that she's like that and is working to fix it, so she is a step further in the process than you are and can speak to it. Honestly, I don't want to get into a deep conversation with you about it. You don't want a conversation, and you don't want help, even though you keep posting about the exact same thing over and over and over again, as if you want advice. But you don't want advice. You just want people to agree with you. Everyone else who has gotten into it with you on this post you've got mad at, and blocked. I agree with them. You can block me as well if you want, but I agree with them and think that you need to look into your own behavior and how you act instead of always deflecting. Because this thing that you keep doing, where you don't listen to what your friends are telling you and then try to get mad at them and turn the entire world against them is toxic. And I know that you got mad at somebody else calling you toxic, but the fact of it is that it's true. You want people to lie to you about your behavior, and I'm not going to do that. It's toxic, and your friends pulling away from you is the outcome and your own fault. NOBODY else's. And even if you go out and get brand new friends, It will continue to happen because you continue to not change your behavior and try to blame everything on everybody else. Now you pushed everyone out of your life and you continue to not be happy. So what are you going to do when you have nobody left to blame? At some point you're going to have to confront that your behavior is the problem. When you do, you can feel free to message me. Or feel free to block me. It's not really a problem to me either way. Your life will just continue to be worse until you learn to take accountability for yourself. I can't try to help you when you Refuse to accept that you have some toxic behaviors and are wrong at times, and just want to act like everyone else is wrong. I don't know how you convinced yourself that you're right and everybody else is wrong, but it's not true.
Even on here, you just called somebody a hypocrite because they are going through the same thing and are trying to help you. Do you realize how mean that is for absolutely no reason? How toxic that is? Especially since you've been acting incredibly hypocritical on this entire post. You aren't treating your friends correctly and refuse to take responsibility for it, but you expect them to take responsibility for the things they've done to you that you don't feel is fair. Why do you expect more of them then you expect of yourself?
What everybody has said on this post is true. Just from this post alone, I can tell that you do not treat other people well when they have a different opinion than you. You don't know how to respectfully disagree with somebody, or how to let them respectfully disagree with you. You ask for advice, and then take constructive criticism as a personal insult. You just want to be right all of the time, and not recognize when your own behavior is wrong. And even when you are willing to notice that your behavior is wrong, you take away from it by trying to point out that you think everybody else is way worse than you are. Which is the opposite of taking accountability for yourself. Which every adult needs to know how to do.
Like I said, when you're willing to work on yourself you can message me and I can try to help you. I don't care how many times you post on here, nobody on here will be able to help you so long as you refuse to take responsibility for yourself like an adult. Which so far, you haven't done. Though I assume you will block me after this message, because you don't seem to like people being upfront and honest with you. Either way, I won't be replying again on this post and will turn off notifications for it.
I would seriously suggest that you actually think about what I said rather than just getting triggered by it and trying to act like everyone else is the problem, since so far that is all you have done and you haven't taken any accountability for your own actions like an adult should. Because I don't even know you and have no reason to dislike you or want to say something to hurt you.
I'm not here for a debate, and like I said, I won't be looking at this post again. Even if you reply. But if you are genuinely willing to recognize some of your toxic Behavior, are willing to stop blaming everybody else for your own behavior, and genuinely want to improve yourself, you can message me. I have nothing to gain or lose either way- YOUR life is the one that's going to go downhill if you continue acting the way that you do. And if it does, that will also be as a result of your behavior, and nobody else's fault. Eventually, you're going to come to a place where you hit rock bottom and you're forced to confront yourself and your toxic behaviors even if you don't want to. I would highly suggest that you do it before there's nobody left in your life because you pushed them all away by not treating them right. Because your logic that you're right and everyone else is somehow all mutually wrong doesn't make any sense at all. You just made a post less than an hour ago asking why people don't want to talk to you. The answer is on this post. You've just blocked everybody who said it. That's proof to me that you don't actually care about the truth, you just want people to make you feel better by telling you that you're right even though you aren't. So again, if you ever come to this realization and are willing to work on improving your own behavior, you can message me and I'd be more than willing to help. Or block me for being honest. Either way works for me. It's your life on the line, not mine. But I can assure you that if you continue acting the way you do, eventually you won't have anybody left it all. Because nobody wants to be treated the way that you treat them.
Up to you if you want to block me, or if you are actually willing to self reflect and take advice without getting insulted and work on bettering yourself. In that case, you can message me, but I won't be looking at this post again. I can only assume that you'll treat me the way that you've treated everybody else who's come on to this post trying to help you.
Otherwise, have a nice day.
