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Guys only: What are the REAL signs that a guy doesn’t like you back?

I have a huge crush on this guy. He is so smart, kind, goofy, he’s always there for his friends and he’s so funny. He and I are really good friends. I’m not sure if he likes me the way I like him.
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Turtlepower · 36-40, M
Honestly, if you have to ask, he probably doesn't. Otherwise, he'd probably make it obvious.
sleepykoala · 31-35, F
@Turtlepower smart!
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
@sleepykoala your response was better tbh although number 5 can go either way. I want my significant other to be a friend first and I treat my friends well.

Well thought out response though!
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Turtlepower Wow... that was so MEAN! 😭😡
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl I'm sorry you took it that way. It wasn't meant to be mean, but rather a commentary that men usually don't beat around the bush when it comes to chasing women they want to be with.
sleepykoala · 31-35, F
@Turtlepower a friend? I hope my significant other can treat me as his besfriend. a friend sounds too 'normal' :D
sleepykoala · 31-35, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl what he mean to say is if a guy really like you he won't left you wondering, darling. good luck <3
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
@sleepykoala haha that's fair!
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Turtlepower So you’re saying women sugarcoat it? My brother even said guys don’t sugarcoat their feelings when they like or don’t like a girl.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@sleepykoala That hurts. Thanks I guess
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl Women are less predictable on this topic. Some are forward, some give hints, some "play hard to get", and due to this variance Men often just go for it because we can't always figure it out :)

I'm not saying women sugarcoat anything though. Most times I was rejected by a woman it was pretty clear to me, and wasn't always put nicely (this is mostly my teen years).
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@Turtlepower Ooh okay got it. Thanks 👍🏻
I don’t know how to tell my crush know that I like him.
I’m sorry you got rejected a lot. I’ve been rejected a lot as well.