Guys only: What are the REAL signs that a guy doesn’t like you back?

I have a huge crush on this guy. He is so smart, kind, goofy, he’s always there for his friends and he’s so funny. He and I are really good friends. I’m not sure if he likes me the way I like him.

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sleepykoala · 31-35, F

this is my personal opinion.

1. he won't reply texts quickly
2. he likes to mention other women in conversation
3. he spends less time with you
4. he flirts with other women too
5. he treats you like he treats a friend

doesn't hold eye contact, doesn't give a compliment, pull back if you touch him might a sign as well.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@sleepykoala Oh...okay thank you

Turtlepower · 36-40, M

Honestly, if you have to ask, he probably doesn't. Otherwise, he'd probably make it obvious.

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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@sleepykoala That hurts. Thanks I guess

Turtlepower · 36-40, M

@LaylaTheTallGirl Women are less predictable on this topic. Some are forward, some give hints, some "play hard to get", and due to this variance Men often just go for it because we can't always figure it out :)

I'm not saying women sugarcoat anything though. Most times I was rejected by a woman it was pretty clear to me, and wasn't always put nicely (this is mostly my teen years).

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@Turtlepower Ooh okay got it. Thanks 👍🏻
I don’t know how to tell my crush know that I like him.
I’m sorry you got rejected a lot. I’ve been rejected a lot as well.

biandlargeny · 56-60, M

When he's texting your friend

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