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Are older men better and more settled for a woman in their twenties?

SW-User
Goodness I hope not. The last thing I want is a guy who probably "settled" like three times before he met me and has an entire army of children at his ex wife's house. >.<
SW-User
@SW-User you wanted me to get you off this planet
SW-User
B-but your age is hidden. I could have never known! 😆
SW-User
Hmm ok so it is
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I wouldn’t recommend that. I married somebody older and I regret it every single day. You have to be completely on the same page in most areas or else it goes to shit.
SW-User
I think women are at their most fertile in their 20s, so I can understand why that's a desirable age in a woman from a man's perspective.
SW-User
@SW-User More in an evolutionary perspective! But I do get what you mean, it's just I've never wanted children and at 41, while I will have temptations and desires of course, the idea of someone slightly older than me is way easier to me.
Drpepper70 · 46-50, C
Older men are not in a rush, they appreciate the woman they are with. They enjoy the experience, they are patient, and put the lady before themselves. Younger guys, not all, but most just want to get off asap!
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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@Keepitsimple So true. They all had a great relationship until he passed away. She used to come to Christmas at my friend's house and my friend just wanted her husband to be happy and not miss out on his kids.

The flipside I dated a man that paid for his ex wife's nanny, live in housekeeper, lawn and pool maintenance, and she still got thousands of dollars a month in support. He ended up marrying a coworker but continued keeping up the ex's lifestyle too.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I hope your friend will be ok when it’s all over. This is the last thing she should have to deal with emotionally and financially. @Fungirlmmm
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Being more settled is not actually a good thing for someone in their 20s unless your goal is to be settled BY your twenties.
antonioio · 70-79, M
The saying goes
It's better to be an old mans darling than a young man's fool
Olivine · 31-35
Depends on the woman and where they are in their life. If they are looking to settle down they might be better off dating guys a little older but there are younger guys who are looking for that too and plenty of older guys just looking for casual hookups so it really just depends on the individuals involved and where they are in their lives.
SW-User
not necessarily. men of all ages act like children.
Ladyofemotions · 31-35, F
@SW-User unfortunately. I'd like someone mature in their thinking
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JonathanC · 61-69, M
@BlackClapTrap Don't knock it until you've tried it.
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JonathanC · 61-69, M
@BlackClapTrap That's a kinky role play.
Peppa · 31-35, F
For a mess like me yes. I need a leader.
Ladyofemotions · 31-35, F
@Peppa I need stability and leadership myself. You have a resemblance to a YouTuber/model...
Peppa · 31-35, F
@Ladyofemotions thanks thats not my photo... As many other users here know 👍🏾
Ladyofemotions · 31-35, F
@Peppa ohhhh, okay
voodoo1970 · 51-55, M
It's not a simple yes/no answer, it really depends on the personalities involved.
There's a young woman in my office (just gone 21) who is very mature, quiet and not a party type girl, who would be great for someone like me who isn't looking for a wild time.
But there's women in their 30s who still eant to party, and men older than me who are still mentally adolescent boys.
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Ladyofemotions · 31-35, F
@kingkyri Not for me
SW-User
Maybe, who knows
SW-User
Possibly but then being settled can also come with baggage like being stuck in their ways. Still, it can work with some though.
Kowlick · 41-45, M
IDK I wouldn't date someone in their twenties personally.
Ladyofemotions · 31-35, F
@Kowlick but why not?I'd rather now find someone in older than me because I need stability
Kowlick · 41-45, M
@Ladyofemotions your personality is still evolving in twenties I think.
SW-User
Maybe but energy levels may be different and interests. You'd need to find a connection in a different way.
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
I’m an older settled mind but would rather be with a woman in her mid to late 40’s
Evilnine86 · 36-40, M
If a settled man is what you want then yes.
Ladyofemotions · 31-35, F
@Evilnine86 Definetly that's what I want
Evilnine86 · 36-40, M
@Ladyofemotions i lIke but of wild heart and spontaneous passion myself. :)
SW-User
I'd love a woman in her 20s
JonathanC · 61-69, M
I think so.
Could be 🤷‍♂️
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Some women in their twenties still act like teens.
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@uncalled4 True
snofan · M
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In every single case ? [b]No.[/b] People are not all the same.

 
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