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I need a therapist

I don’t want to get out of bed in the morning, I don’t want to face the day, my brother and his girlfriend make me feel like I’m walking on eggshells everyday. They both have OCD about keeping the house clean. Even the bowl have to be in a certain order. Where as I have ADD. I don’t notice when things are out of place. And like what difference does it make if they are lined left to right or right to left. It’s not like I put them in the wrong cabinet where they can’t be found. I drives them crazy if I leave my school stuff out on the couch with my computer. I’m just going to wake up the next morning and pick up where I left off. If I put it away then in the morning I have to backtrack and try to figure out what’s I left off. I have no one to talk to. My dad is always at work. I don’t have a mom. And I had to get rid of my dog.

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hidingrighthere

Doesn't really sound like you need a therapist, your life just sucks major ass. Gotta work to find ways around it, maybe bring up your concerns to your brother and his girlfriend. Find a spot you can always put your stuff, 100% of the time, it'll be hard, but after a month, you'll be into the habit of putting it there you'll never lose it. I can't really offer any solutions for your dad or mom, just, hang in there bud, life will get better in a couple years, just need to keep looking ahead rather than the situation you're in

Wiseacre · F

Lol, sorry, i found this funny...u need to get outta there and have ur own place and privacy. There is no compatibility there. U need a friend, not a therapist.

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Ohbabe · 22-25, F

@hidingrighthere are you the only one thats had multiple therapists babe? Im graduating with my ba in psych in 2 months, i’ve had multiple therapists and im currently in therapy. Im not going to say im an expert on anything based on that though. My opinion is that the comment was ugly. Where do we go from here, honey? & whats my bad advice?

hidingrighthere

@Ohbabe Don't call me babe, or honey, it makes it sound as if you're talking down to me. I refuse to do the same to you, so I request you return the favor, but I doubt you will. I base my argument on your comment on this post as well, and a therapist can NOT help is this situation. He's more likely to be pumped up on drugs that will fuck with him for the rest of his life.
Considering you feel the need to talk down to me, this conversation is over.

Ohbabe · 22-25, F

@hidingrighthere Sounds like you’re projecting. Im not talking down to you, but if you’re feeling that way, it doesn’t have anything to do with me. Im mature, I wont call you anything you don’t like. As I said, a therapist can help, especially when a person expresses that they’d like to see one.

Sounds like you may be confusing a therapist with a psychiatrist. A therapist cannot prescribe medication, so with a therapist its not likely he’ll be “pumped on drugs”

if the conversation is over, stop responding to me (:

4meAndyou · F

Talk to your Dad as soon as he gets home from work, or leave him a letter telling him what you need. If he works all the time he has good health insurance, and it will be paid for by his insurance. If you can't talk through these things as they happen to you, you will end up in a bad place in your head.

Abbenthewarwolf · 18-21, M

🙁 They have better b kind to u. Tell ur Dad. Get bk to u later brother

2brandon2 · 18-21, M

Sun goes up, sun goes down. Just another day I don’t want to get out of bed. I enjoy doing my school work on my computer, but I feel like I need some sort of socialization. Even my scouting is online.

Ohbabe · 22-25, F

ANYWAY, A therapist can really help in this situation. Im sorry you have to deal with it. Sounds like two opposite ends of the spectrum 😕😕

England66 · 61-69, M

Hope it works out for you

2brandon2 · 18-21, M

@England66 I am much better theses days. Thank you 🙏

MrSimons · 41-45, M

@2brandon2 I am really glad to hear that, Brandon.

2brandon2 · 18-21, M

@MrSimons thanks

MrSimons · 41-45, M

How is everything going these days?

2brandon2 · 18-21, M

@MrSimons not much better, but at least I’m still alive and healthy.

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