I need a therapist

I don’t want to get out of bed in the morning, I don’t want to face the day, my brother and his girlfriend make me feel like I’m walking on eggshells everyday. They both have OCD about keeping the house clean. Even the bowl have to be in a certain order. Where as I have ADD. I don’t notice when things are out of place. And like what difference does it make if they are lined left to right or right to left. It’s not like I put them in the wrong cabinet where they can’t be found. I drives them crazy if I leave my school stuff out on the couch with my computer. I’m just going to wake up the next morning and pick up where I left off. If I put it away then in the morning I have to backtrack and try to figure out what’s I left off. I have no one to talk to. My dad is always at work. I don’t have a mom. And I had to get rid of my dog.

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Wiseacre · F

Lol, sorry, i found this funny...u need to get outta there and have ur own place and privacy. There is no compatibility there. U need a friend, not a therapist.

Ohbabe · 22-25, F

@Wiseacre ??? This is so ugly

hidingrighthere

@Ohbabe the first part is ugly, but the rest of it is solid advice. A therapist can not make a bad life into a good one, only you can do that. Hell, I look back on the days I had a therapist as a kid only to realize, "oh shit, my life just sucked, that's why I was depressed"

Ohbabe · 22-25, F

@hidingrighthere and thats your opinion. I find all of it ugly. To say “you need a friend not a therapist?” ugly. None of it is solid advice? lmao. Glad you realized that though.

hidingrighthere

@Ohbabe and my opinion is based on actually having multiple therapists, what's yours based on? Or are you here to deal out bad advice and try getting the last word in?

Ohbabe · 22-25, F

@hidingrighthere are you the only one thats had multiple therapists babe? Im graduating with my ba in psych in 2 months, i’ve had multiple therapists and im currently in therapy. Im not going to say im an expert on anything based on that though. My opinion is that the comment was ugly. Where do we go from here, honey? & whats my bad advice?

hidingrighthere

@Ohbabe Don't call me babe, or honey, it makes it sound as if you're talking down to me. I refuse to do the same to you, so I request you return the favor, but I doubt you will. I base my argument on your comment on this post as well, and a therapist can NOT help is this situation. He's more likely to be pumped up on drugs that will fuck with him for the rest of his life.
Considering you feel the need to talk down to me, this conversation is over.

Ohbabe · 22-25, F

@hidingrighthere Sounds like you’re projecting. Im not talking down to you, but if you’re feeling that way, it doesn’t have anything to do with me. Im mature, I wont call you anything you don’t like. As I said, a therapist can help, especially when a person expresses that they’d like to see one.

Sounds like you may be confusing a therapist with a psychiatrist. A therapist cannot prescribe medication, so with a therapist its not likely he’ll be “pumped on drugs”

if the conversation is over, stop responding to me (: