I Need Advice The incentive here is nice, although I have no clue how to reply to him.

Pinkrainbowkisses · F

Sounds stalkerish.

Catzgano · 31-35, F

Yes it's like he's spying on u. Weird.

Dreammmer · 61-69, M

Take your time to think and reply when you are sure how to reply. Then it will be good.

SW-User

Hmmmm..I'd stay clear..thank him for noticing you,and leave it

Renee99 · 41-45, M

I don't know I think it's weird. I do have to agree with catzgano.

Khenpal1 · M

teen boys mind , at least he made an effort writing this :) Did you replied to him ?

dale74 · M

Sounds like you got his attention tell him he can take you out

wheels1972 · M

Just be honest!

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

Tell him your not interested

th3r0n · 41-45, M

Honestly, he doesn't make any outlandish claims, no bullshit lines, says honestly what he found endearing (sweetly kissing your mom), openly talked about how he saw that you weren't as innocent as you seemed at first. I take it you don't know each other well yet, but so far he's looking at you honestly, seeing the good and bad, and being honest about it. I see sincerity, even if a little awkward, and considering how most guys are these days I find this to be a big step up from most.

I took care of a young woman for a while as if I were her father, kinda took her in, and the guys she attracted were mostly slime. I saw the way they talked to her, all trying to persuade her with things that sound like a big deal and it was all fluffy lies and double talk. This guy was real, for better or worse.

I honestly think you should get to know him a little and see how you feel about him.

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fabbadmire99 · 41-45, M

So you have a secret admirer and he just wants to share his feelings with you . Boys his age are just horny too , just like girls are at your age , but for you it's different . It's his fantasy he is telling you about .

Sacron22 · 56-60, M

He's weird. If he cared about you he'd face to tell you. The post is wimpy, at best.
I advice you to NOT answer him at all. Any response will encourage him.
I can't say he's a 'stalker.' But I can say few men would admit watching you leave your home unless they dated you a few times. This guy... stay away.