I Need Advice

No it's not. It's an obsession

@Catzgano: somehow your comment just really annoys me, making a simple infatuation out to be something sick. Women being paranoid over the most idiotic things but missing the signs of serious issues is what makes them wind up with losers and psychos instead of decent guys.

Not saying the guy is decent, don't know him, but there's nothing here to indicate anything more than being in love.

FYI being "in love" is about emotion, love is deeper and forever, so don't confuse the two.

@hollystill: I think it's pretty simple really, you're exceptionally pretty (that picture is you right), and women these days are near as bad as the guys for the most part, so seeing a woman be sweet really goes a long way with a guy who's interested in more than her body, and the hiking the skirt probably added a sexual attraction and intrigue to it and showed a complex character in you that really got his attention.

Basically, you got into his head without knowing it.

@hollystill: perhaps he was too shy at the time to be seen, like seeing you from his window. You would be surprised how much it can take to approach a girl if she makes you feel strong emotion. I would honestly say that approaching a girl that I felt that strongly about would have inspired more fear than a gun pointed at my head when I was younger.