Does everyone deserve a second chance?

Absolutely not. Some people have absolutely no intention of using that chance to make amends or to rectify the situation they created in the slightest. Their only aim is often to get back into your good graces so the situation or you can remain beneficial to themselves for little more than basic human selfishness.

For most it is easy enough to apologize, but they forget they don't get to decide if and when the other person accepts it, how long they take to get over the hurt and betrayal and what the fallout and grief of that looks and feels like to them. They can choose not to stick around and put in the work to regain the friendship, love or trust of that person if they give enough of a damn, but more often than not.. most feel like the other should just "let it go" quickly when odds are whatever they did was trailed over days.. weeks and perhaps months to years. Expecting someone to be over heartbreak or betrayal so we don't have to feel bad about ourselves is utter bullshit. They get over it when they get over it. Even if that time is never. The flip side is, once the other has forgiven it, they don't get to keep bashing them over the head with it for leverage. You either forgive it or you don't.

on either side, if it feels bad/wrong, it probably IS. Just move on to people you can trust.

I've given second. Third. Forth.

I think it depends on the person and what they've done.
I gave too many chances. It's something I'm working on

Why! What me do now? 🤔

I don't give second chances for that very reason. Fool me once, fool me twice...

I used to be like that. Some got what seemed like unlimited chances. Now its one strike and I am done 😒

Depends on the situation. Actually though, I’m just being selfish. I really like this song and wanted to post it. Hope you’ll give me a second chance to post a better answer next time. 😬

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I don't think anyone deserves a second chance. I think you are nice to give people extra chances.

Everyone deserves a second chance.

It's crazy, but it's kind of true.

Cause people can change.

I dont do second chances anymore. Lesson learned that that's exactly who they are.

I don't. If something is done, it's done for good.

I don’t.
Nor do I deserve one

It depends on the importance of what happened. If someone cancels on me at the last minute with some lame-sounding excuse, for example, I’ll probably give them another chance just in case my instincts are wrong

Case by case basis. Usually not.

Highly contextual. A lot of it is about what was done to violate your trust and the circumstances surrounding it.

A second chance must be earned. The person getting the second chance has to want it enough to put in the work necessary to repair whatever the problem was in the first place, and they have to do it sincerely. Otherwise, they don't deserve a second chance — and even if they do the work and are sincere, you're not obligated to give it to them.

Only some people don’t but it depend on what happened.

I used to do a little prayer ritual where I recite family and friends to God and thank him for blessing me and them and forgiving me for my wrongs and giving me all these chances and now I just forgo the blessing me for my wrongs cause I know He must be tired of all the chances..but I still recite the others names

Almost not everyone.

EVERYONE EXCEPT DEGBEME 🥔😡

thanks..❤️ I promise to do better next time!

I usually do give second chances unless that first time was so offensive that I can’t warrant a second chance

No. Second chances are given out of the goodness of one’s heart. It’s not something anyone is owed or has earned.

I don't usually, I think. I only look for a few specific red flags so if I see them, it's hard to come back from that.

Not everyone.

It's depends on what is the crime.

Nah 1 strike and you’re out or on thin ice 🧊

Some do and some definitely do not. Choose wisely.

Forgive and don't forget.

Trump too

Depends. On the person, the offense, and the circumstances around it.

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Nope they sure do not. Depends what they did but I don’t give second chances for serious stuff.

honestly it depends on the severity of the offense, some stuff is just not forgivable

Depends on who and what they did. I forgive people but I don't forget

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. I never give a third chance.
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