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Would this be considered cheating?

Last night I met someone that I really click with. We are both in relationships but also admitted that there's an attraction and connection between us but that we will not allow it to get in the way of our relationships. I would never cheat on my boyfriend, but I can't help but feel guilty for talking to this other guy. We don't flirt or talk sexually, I genuinely just like talking to him and he doesn't even compare to my boyfriend. We also exchanged phone numbers and are texting right now. Conversation is still very light and innocent (about basketball games, driving tests, etc). So tell me, should I stop talking to him? Again, we've established that our friendship isn't going to go anywhere else.
havochound
If you feel guilty there must be a reason. This is the best measure I found to determine such a thing
havochound
lol the route of staying with your boyfriend is the one I meant you seeming to be taking vs not, regardless of your coworker. I do not think of people as cheaters or chaste; people are simply people, so that was never a point of mine.
Put simply: you seem discontent and probably ought to have a look at that source before it bites you in the butt someday; being with someone because of a lack of will to hurt them ends up hurting much more, for everyone.
Mirabal19 · 26-30, M
Thank you for the advice. I probably would not hesitate to break up with him if I was unhappy. But I am, so wish me luck :)
havochound
Good luck I suppose :)
Goldenworm
Intimacy is intimacy. That's why you're feeling guilt. Talk to your bf about what's ok and what isn't. having friends, even intimate ones, should be ok.
Mirabal19 · 26-30, M
I guess the distance also plays a great factor
Goldenworm
LTR are hard - folks tend to grow apart. Will you 2 be in the same physical space any time soon?
Mirabal19 · 26-30, M
He's coming to see me in 10 days... but afterwards, it might be a longer period of time before I see him. SO on that note I have no idea how long we're going to last.
RocknRollCowboy71
I've had more than one "inappropriate relationship" start out just like that. ..
LughLuxor
Stretch that pussy.

 
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