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Would it take a man 5 to 6 year's to approach you or is he just not interested?

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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
I no longer approach women. Most don't want to be approached. I expect women to approach me. That sometimes works. Again because they want to.

If you expect a dominating person, then you're not my type of woman.

Relationships are neither dominant nor submissive. They are partnerships.

With it being lopsided and women expecting men to approach, they are not looking for partnerships. Or they are already taken.

Confidence is not a one way street.
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pancakeslam · 41-45, M
@DeWayfarer So women are attracted to you because you are big and imposing. That's a little different than what you said. It isn't confident women who need your presence, it's scared hapless women. Not to take away from that for what it's worth, physical protection is a need for most women.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@pancakeslam guy you have no idea what I look like. Most women do avoid me. This was a rare thing and if she wouldn't have told me that she already had a boyfriend I might have even asked her out.

Most of these situations are that way. I walked with for a half a mile. And that was it. I have yet to see again.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
That sounds like something I would do tbh but I think I’m most cases they’re just not interested
That’s not to say they could not become interested
Where’s he approaching me from, the moon?
People will often assume the other person isn't interested and never make a move. Oldest tale of time, since relationships were invented.
The latter in my case.. but as far as generalizations go: either a guy is shy/respectful or just disinterested
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
Way way faster. Unless he thought you were married or in a relationship.
I’d assume he wasn’t interested—or didn’t think I was. Most guys know, if they don’t step up, someone else probably will.
So they don’t usually waste time if it’s someone they really want.
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
That's the worst feelin for a girl, no. Not being sure if a guy is into her. If you like her, just tell her. If she says no, cry for two days, suck it up and focus your romantic inclination on another girl.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
He’s either not interested, thinks you’ve friend zoned him or he simply has no balls.

If he likes you, he’s going to do or say something obvious.
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
No one likes rejection. And sometimes it chips away at your confidence.
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Feelings evolve
Bleak · 36-40, F
Approaching for what??
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Depends on the man. I've had crushes I've never acted on because I assumed the other person wouldn't be interested or I was just too shy to say anything.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Not interested more than a week is a waste of time

 
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