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have you ever cheated on your partner

why or why not?

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JustAmber · 36-40, F

Yes

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JustAmber · 36-40, F

@antonioioio no

Guardian

@JustAmber how did it come about?

Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M

@JustAmber C'mon baby you have to tell me more. Why did you cheat and was it good

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

Never

Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M

@DearAmbellina2113 Good girl

QueenOfZaun · 26-30, F

I’ve cheated on almost everyone I’ve ever been with

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TallMtnMedic · M

@QueenOfZaun But is it really mental illness, or the thrill of seeing someone naked per sey? Maybe the thrill of doing something that is dangerous?

Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M

@QueenOfZaun Are you a sex addict is that why you do it

4meAndyou · F

No. It's a really horrible thing to do. I walked in on two of my ex husbands when I was supposed to be somewhere else...and it is the worst feeling.

Lovingsomeone · F

I have a Fwb's and the hubby knows and is okay with it so I don't consider that cheating!

TallMtnMedic · M

@Lovingsomeone Open and honest communication is akqays the best way. When did you and your husband first have an open marriage?

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

No apart from the time i saw a topless guy through a window

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Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

I’ve cheated out of resentment. Because I couldn’t express what was wrong or what I needed. Cheating is a way of sabotaging a relationship you don’t have the courage to end. I’m
Not saying that I judge people for doing that. I mostly just judge myself for it.

monellla731 · 46-50, M

@Muthafukajones that is brave of you

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@monellla731 How is it brave? I think it’s mostly cowardly of me. I know that understanding what the problem is is very introspective and could bring about positive change but so far I’ve just repeated the pattern. I haven’t cheated on every woman but I have with several.

monellla731 · 46-50, M

@Muthafukajones you have the balls 2 admit it

Bleak · 36-40, F

Cheating on a partner is such a heionous act.

TheunderdogofNY · 36-40, M

Yes in the past i did. Because i was stupid and immature. Sometimes you have to know when to end a relationship instead of hurting someone's feelings by deceiving them.

submissivelittlewoman · F

Nope

WillaKissing · 56-60

No, and I think it is despicable to do so. Shit end the relationship and just move on with your doings before cheating on your partner I say.

Sleepysheep · 26-30, M

Nope been cheated on though and it was the worst feeling ever.

Nothing Morse sickening to me than Cheaters and Beaters intact they deserve each other in my books 🤣😂

deadguy · M

Does liking someone else, but never have any relationship or intimacy with that person count?

WellFrog · 56-60, M

I have, mor often than I tend to admit.

As to why, early on it was sex for sex sake...seeking what was missing sexually, being denied what I love most (which is giving oral by the way).

I would come to realize it was not just the sex, but also intimacy, sensuality, and even romantic connection I was craving. I found lovers, mostly married, with the same desire.

Not sharing this with any pride, just being up front in answering.