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Question for the religious and non religious folks who...

always try convincing others of their faith or non faith.

If your faith is so strong, why do you care if others dont believe what you believe? Your beliefs should be untouchable and same goes to those who dont believe in religion, why do you care that others do believe in it and why try to prove their religion to be not real?

I am religious myself and could not care in the slightest if others dont believe in it. I dont understand the constant religious arguments and trying to prove its real or not real
BlueVeins · 22-25
Religious beliefs inform people's moral values, which in turn heavily inform their politics. It's no coincidence that only about 18% of jehovah's witnesses support abortion rights, compared to 73% of the unaffiliated.

If your faith is so strong, why do you care if others dont believe what you believe? Your beliefs should be untouchable and same goes to those who dont believe in religion, why do you care that other do believe in it and why try to prove their religion to be not real?

I'm of the opinion that there's probably no god in the same way that there's probably no Bigfoot, but I'm not so entrenched in that view that I couldn't be swayed by a reasonable argument. In fact, I used to be a Christian before conversations with atheists and agnostics convinced me that Christianity is not a sound and evidence-based ideology.
Torsten · 36-40, M
@BlueVeins the gay religious stuff I think is more people twisting their religious views to back up their hatred of gay people. Granted I dont know enough about others religions to really say that but from the arguments I have seen on it, there is many contradictions to gay people and certain religion such as Christianity for example.
when it comes to religion and hating on others due to that, I can see why the arguments are valid

oh yeah Big Foot certainly does not exist at this point of time for sure, But in past though I think could be pretty reasonable to say
robb65 · 56-60, M
@BlueVeins Jehovah's Witnesses are definitely "religious" to the point that it affects their positions on things, but they are also a very bad example of why "religious" doesn't necessarily equate with "correct" positions on things. Take the whole "blood issue" for example. G-d gave instructions to the Israelites not to consume meat with it's blood and there's a lot more details about what that meant that aren't as obvious. Somehow they managed to take this completely out of context and use it to forbid a common life saving medical procedure while totally ignoring the original context. Ever wonder why Jews, the people who this instruction was given to don't have a problem with blood transfusions? Or why they all, from the most observant to the least tend to support abortion rights?
BlueVeins · 22-25
@robb65 You're conflating religion w holy book. A holy book is words on a paper, a religion is an ideology based off the holy book. The two can differ substantially, doesn't make the religion in question any less real, or the followers any less religious.
JuniperEmz · 22-25, F
Not all religions make 'spreading the word' an important priority. Like you don't get many Hindu or Jewish missionaries (AFAIK). Nor do most pagans or whatever as far as I can tell. The difference is mostly in Christianity where believers are specifically told in the bible to tell other people about it.

And now I'm being so thoughtful (!), i guess it's also related to how your religion views the world. If you see the world as full of gods and goddesses and you're just busy worshipping your own ones, then you're going to not bother much about other peoples gods. And it also matters about your afterlife beliefs: if you believe in some kind of reincarnation, or simply no afterlife for anyone, then it's not going to matter much what other people believe. If you believe that people are going to heaven or hell, then it's definitely an act of charity (for the believer) to try and tell as many people about their religion as possible - because you don't want anyone going to hell if they can avoid it (assuming you believe hell's a bad place, anyway).

So if you believe there is one single God (or Goddess i guess), and also believe that there's a heaven you hope everyone can get to, and then combine that with an instruction to preach to other people...you care a lot about what other people believe.



Or, you can light your candles and incense, leave offerings under a tree, respect the place you're living in and it's energies, and leave everyone else alone. How I manage anyway 🤷‍♀️
Torsten · 36-40, M
@JuniperEmz good point and from my experience with paganism and that being Norse paganism is there is no desire or priority to spread it around to others.

I do see where people are coming from with spreading it and so on based on the replies in here. I guess my question is when it comes to the endless arguing back and forth stuff.
If people want to "spread the word" of their religion, why not do that to people who want to hear it and leave others alone when its clear they dont want any part of it and why do non believers care so much that people do have religious views?
yeah the never ending arguments on religion is baffling to me.
JuniperEmz · 22-25, F
@Torsten I wanna heart that twice!

I don't mind people talking to me about what they believe (I prob won't start the conversation though), but when it goes from two people being interested in each others views of the world to badgering me, yeah that's when I try to back away a bit...
Torsten · 36-40, M
@JuniperEmz I am the same with you on that for certain things. religion is a big topic I normally try and avoid. If people ask me bout it thats cool but if a argument breaks out, I am out. Its just a waste of time
redredred · M
It’s fairly obvious that human history is the story of conflict much of it religious in nature. Most religions impose a duty to proselytize. If the religious would simply keep their idiotic superstitions to themselves life would be much more peaceful.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@Budwick
My take on this is that if someone has expressed an interest, wants to know more, I will make time to discuss it with them. If there's no interest, I don't bring it up.

I asked another person this question, who got ticked off and refused to participate in the discussion. Maybe you are willing?

Jesus held three large meetings with thousands of people. There was the Sermon on the Mount, Matthew chapters 5-7. Then there were the two times on the hills with the crowds where the loaves and fish were on the menu in Matthew chapter 14 & Matthew chapter 15.

The question is: which of the Ten Commandments is illustrated by those three meetings?
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Diotrephes What is the nature of this question? Is it meant to be a trick question that has no correct answer?
Why is it assumed that Jesus's sermon on those occasions particularly illustrated specifically one of the 10 commandments?
Jesus always did the will of God. All 10 commandments are the will of God.
Unsure of how to approach this question which has a built in premise.
DocSavage · M
I’m an Atheist, three times this week, when having a discussion with “true believers” I was told I’m angry at god, and I need to rethink my views before it’s too late. The bible is the only real truth, and no one can believe otherwise.
Willful ignorance, is offensive. Especially when you force it on others.
People need to know the opposing view.
Adstar · 56-60, M
I believe those who reject My faith will end up in The Eternal Lake of fire and will be in torment forever and ever..

I do not want anyone to spend eternity in The Lake of Fire..

Therefore i go out and share the Gospel that if accepted saves other people from spending eternity in such a terrible place..

Also God told me to share the gospel with others.. I did not really need that order but it does help when your facing a lot of hatred for sharing the Gospel..
Adstar · 56-60, M
@Torsten Having someone tell me about their religion ( and i have had that on more then a few occasions) is not them shoving it down my throat.. The closest i have come to that was from a muslim and islam believes fighting jihad against the unbeliever as a way of forcing their religion down throats.. But the common complaint by people like you about Christianity is just a lie..

You cause more hate for your religion by doing exactly what you just wrote.

Once again no i don't.. Hate is a choice that people make.. People can choose to respond to a person sharing their religion in many different ways.. Hate mongering people decide to respond with hate towards the one sharing their beliefs.. Now i can and i do hate other religions but that is not the same as hating a person who believes in that religion.. So i hate islam but i do not hate muslims.. I hate the catholic religion and the Jehovah's witness religion and the mormon religion but i do not hate mormons of JW's or catholics..

You think you know what is best for everyone else and that will cause so much hatred with that type of thinking. No one wants to hear that shit.. sorry but that is the truth.

Why are you saying sorry for?? I have been sharing the Gospel for 30 years and i face hatred most days of doing it, so you are not telling me anything i don't already know.. As as for your point.. If a person has the truth and thus knows what is actually best for everyone.. They they should be listened to and their advice should be taken.. Now most religous people believe their religion is the right way.. I have had muslims, JW's, Catholics, mormons and atheists who where very confident in their beliefs telling me all about it.. Did their confidence get me all hot under the collar and bothered? Nope.. Why? because i am supremely confident in the Gospel of The LORD Jesus..

just a thought anyway. Obviously you wont listen but whatever

No i read your thoughts. I listened to them.. And i responded with my thoughts about your thoughts.. That's the way of this kind of discussion..
Torsten · 36-40, M
@Adstar
Having someone tell me about their religion ( and i have had that on more then a few occasions) is not them shoving it down my throat.. The closest i have come to that was from a muslim and islam believes fighting jihad against the unbeliever as a way of forcing their religion down throats.. But the common complaint by people like you about Christianity is just a lie..
Were you open to listening to them tell you bout their religion? If so, that is not having it shoved down your throat. Its when people know full well people dont want to hear it yet keep trying to tell them about it.

Once again no i don't.. Hate is a choice that people make.. People can choose to respond to a person sharing their religion in many different ways.. Hate mongering people decide to respond with hate towards the one sharing their beliefs.. Now i can and i do hate other religions but that is not the same as hating a person who believes in that religion.. So i hate islam but i do not hate muslims.. I hate the catholic religion and the Jehovah's witness religion and the mormon religion but i do not hate mormons of JW's or catholics..
hate is not a choice, its a feeling. You can not really just pick and choose what you feel. It happens organically. You can deny it and try fighting it but you dont choose it.

Why are you saying sorry for?? I have been sharing the Gospel for 30 years and i face hatred most days of doing it, so you are not telling me anything i don't already know.. As as for your point.. If a person has the truth and thus knows what is actually best for everyone.. They they should be listened to and their advice should be taken.. Now most religous people believe their religion is the right way.. I have had muslims, JW's, Catholics, mormons and atheists who where very confident in their beliefs telling me all about it.. Did their confidence get me all hot under the collar and bothered? Nope.. Why? because i am supremely confident in the Gospel of The LORD Jesus.
its a given that Christianity has to be one of the most hated religions these days and I fully believe it is due to Christians having this desire to force it upon others.
Again it is not for you to tell others what is best for them. You might think you know what is best, but you really dont.
You try acting as if you know what is best for others, people will shut you out. I would think after doing that for 30 years you would have learned that at this point.
Adstar · 56-60, M
@Torsten
Were you open to listening to them tell you bout their religion? If so, that is not having it shoved down your throat. Its when people know full well people dont want to hear it yet keep trying to tell them about it.

Nope. People who don't want to hear it say something like thanks for the discussion but i do not believe in God and i don't want to discuss it further.. When people say that i am cool with walking away from them..

But i find online that people, Yeah people like you.. Never actually say that.. Most people want to keep the discussion rolling with counter points. They want to vent at me.. They want to continue the interaction..

Of course online if i end my Gospel sharing with a person and walk away and they post a new thread saying something wrong about Christianity i will respond to them in defense of Christianity.. That's not my sharing my faith, that's me defending my faith from a false accusation or a misrepresentation..

hate is not a choice, its a feeling.

It's definitely a choice..

its a given that Christianity has to be one of the most hated religions these days and I fully believe it is due to Christians having this desire to force it upon others.

Nope.. There are no Bible believing Christians waging holy war / jihad upon unbelievers.. That's a muslim thing.. There are no Christians running a inquisition, That was a catholic religion thing.. And i am not forcing anything down anyone's throat here on SW.. Belief comes when people personally believe Jesus.. You cannot force anyone to believe anything..

Again it is not for you to tell others what is best for them.

If you believe you have the answer to saving others from a terrible eternal outcome and hold your tongue and keep quiet, to just sit back and watch them walk of a cliff into a furnace then that would make you one evil Son of a female dog.. So i will share the Gospel with whom so ever will consider it..

I would think after doing that for 30 years you would have learned that at this point.

I have not been doing this for the last 30 years to save everyone... I have been doing it to bless people who are destined to accept the Gospel truth and are on their way to being saved and having eternal life in Gods perfect eternal existence.. Now if i only help one or two people on their way to the LORD then so be it.. I am not here to save people who hate the love of the truth..
SW-User
I think one of the reasons is because they want the others to be "saved" too especially if it's someone they love & care about. That's what I see from my religious family members.
Torsten · 36-40, M
@SW-User I get that logic to a extent for sure
nedkelly · 61-69, M
I am Christian, this may surprise many people
Zaphod42 · 51-55, M
You’re a loud and proud conservative…christian was just assumed, lol @nedkelly
nedkelly · 61-69, M
@Torsten I never seem to bring my religion in to any conversations
Torsten · 36-40, M
@nedkelly probably the smart thing to do.
I dont hide my beliefs but I also dont go out of my way to talk about them
I only care when it is being shoved down my throat by others.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@PicturesOfABetterTomorrow
I only care when it is being shoved down my throat by others.
The good thing about internet forums such as this is that we can always leave discussions and go do a million other things with our time instead of getting upset when someone posts an opinion that we disagree with.
@Diotrephes If only it was that easy. I have had someone literally suggest I should be stoned to death because I don't believe what they do on this site. That is on a new level.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@PicturesOfABetterTomorrow
If only it was that easy. I have had someone literally suggest I should be stoned to death because I don't believe what they do on this site. That is on a new level.

Sorry you had that experience. I consider all of us to be buddies who can discuss a variety of issues with each other although we all have different opinions. If anyone wants someone to always be in agreement then that person should talk to the image in the mirror.
wildbill83 · 41-45, M
It's not about caring what they believe or trying to prove anything; it's about altruism/self improvement; I've witnessed many get saved over the years, and all were grateful and better off for it. I'm not gonna waste my time trying to "convert" someone who completely rejects it, if they want to condemn themselves, that's their problem 🤷‍♂️

More often than not, from my experience, it's people who aren't religious/don't share any Christian ideals that try to force their twisted ideals on everyone else; either by trying to force acceptance of them because it's the "PC" way, or because they fear being left out/outcasts from a majority who do believe
wildbill83 · 41-45, M
@Diotrephes you obviously haven't read the Bible much...
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@wildbill83
you obviously haven't read the Bible much...
Please cite one verse where Jesus, not Paul, spoke dialogue that says that Gentiles as well as Israelites, will get into the golden cube called New Jerusalem.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@bleach
You're saying those you are non-believers are condemning themselves?

To hell, as it were?

People are always getting their hells mixed up. In the New Testament, when a person dies he goes to death, the sea, or to hell. But all three places are temporary, even Jesus went to hell. Everyone gets out on Judgment Day and death and hell are tossed into the lake of fire. People who have been in hell might still get into the golden cube called New Jerusalem but they won't spend eternity in hell. They might be tossed into the lake of fire, which is the second death.

In the Islamic version when you die you stay dead until Judgment Day and then you get resurrected. The good guys get their own paradises with their own harems, two ninety foot tall translucent women creatures, a herd of cute boys, and eternal erections. Most of the people in hell are women and everyone in hell gets tortured forever.

You might get slapped around in the biblical hell but it's not forever. Stay out of the Islamic hell because it is nasty and forever.
akindheart · 61-69, F
There are 3 things i dont discuss. Religion. Politics and abortion. Make that 2 things
Zaphod42 · 51-55, M
I always wonder the same thing really. I’m non religious, but I respect others right to believe or not believe as they see fit. Frankly I wonder why Christian’s are always trying to convert others…considering it’s only 144,000 in total that are promised to to be raptured, it would seem safer to keep the overall numbers of the faith small, lol
Torsten · 36-40, M
@Zaphod42 i did not know that about their rapture. that is interesting indeed.
Good point though haha
SW-User
For me personally I deeply care about people. I truly believe that salvation is only possible through the blood of Jesus Christ. I hate to think that other people won't be saved so that's my motivation, it's kind of like seeing a bus about to run a person down. Wouldn't you try to warn them to get out of the way? I'm never judgemental. Ultimately it's everyones right to choose what they believe.
Budwick · 70-79, M
If your faith is so strong, why do you care if others dont believe what you believe?

The 'strength' of my faith has nothing to do with caring about others believing or not.
Even Jesus had people walk away from Him.

I CARE because I understand the cost to those that don't believe.

My take on this is that if someone has expressed an interest, wants to know more, I will make time to discuss it with them. If there's no interest, I don't bring it up.
JestAJester · 31-35, M
Whats funny is trying to convince them i am an atheist with his own morals. To them its an oxymoron. Trying to convince them im not some angry, bigoted, and militant bastard hell bent on revenge. Sure my morals for the most part probably stem from a Christian background but ive made some tweaks so theyre a little more sensical
Torsten · 36-40, M
@JestAJester So atheist with a Christian background?
If correct I was not aware atheists got the bigoted militant type accusations, I thought those religious normally had that attached to them by atheists.
That shows my lack of knowledge of both sides really.
tweaks can always be good though and do what you feel is right for you
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Well I am a Christian and we are taught to share the good news. If you had an amazing free gift that you could share which changed your life and provided unlimited benefits wouldn't you want to give it away freely as much as possible also?
With that said I don't try to argue or force. I really enjoy dialouge with others. It strengthens my beliefs because I must study more, challenge myself and provides me with a more well rounded view from the other sides of my position as well.
Sharon · F
@REMsleep
If you are going to engage in dialouge with another person you must at least respond taking what they say at face value.
That is exactly what I did. I quoted you verbatim and responed appropriately, taking what you said at face value.

You claimed that -
Its not hubris to say that Christianity is a personal relationship with God.
I then explained why it is.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Sharon Your explanation of my words is incorrect. You assigned some arbitrary meaning that was neither my intention nor to the letter of what was actually said by me.
Thats where the problem lies and you seem not to even see that you've done this. There is no way to dialouge with a person such as yourself because no matter what I say and no matter how I explain it you will accuse me of what your preconception is anyway.
That is not a fair conversation.
Sharon · F
@REMsleep
You assigned some arbitrary meaning that was neither my intention nor to the letter of what was actually said by me.
No, I did not assign any meaning to your words, I took them as having the common meaning, recorded in English dictionaries. I always presume a person is saying what they mean to say. I accept that can be a problem if English is not their first language and I try to make allowance for that.

Can you spot the deliberate grammatical error in my last sentence?
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@Torsten
Question for the religious and non religious folks who...
always try convincing others of their faith or non faith.

If your faith is so strong, why do you care if others dont believe what you believe? Your beliefs should be untouchable and same goes to those who dont believe in religion, why do you care that others do believe in it and why try to prove their religion to be not real?

I am religious myself and could not care in the slightest if others dont believe in it. I dont understand the constant religious arguments and trying to prove its real or not real

Religion, especially Christianity, has to be discussed in American because the religious fanatics want to create a thearchy and impose their religious superstitions on everyone else. And the thing is that the dummies are ignorant about the very religion they claim to believe in.
mrh1972 · MVIP
Im a non believer myself although i do believe in an afterlife, a force of some kind but definitely not a god. I think some religious groups want those involved to spread their beliefs.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@mrh1972 How can you believe in a force that is not God? By definition wouldn't a powerful force be a god?
A god is just to mean something (force)that is greater than us. We cannot fully know)
Now different religions might assign different characteristics to God, but how can there be a force and an afterlife with nothing responsible for any of it existing?
mrh1972 · MVIP
@REMsleep i take your point, its just my own thoughts
theAlchemist · 56-60, M
My own spiritual orientation leans heavily toward occultism. What others choose to believe is their own choice. Those that use their own beliefs as a bludgeoning tool cam sometimes be the least secure in their claimed beliefs.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
By proclaiming Christianity I am participating in Yahweh's love and redemption work of the world. Sitting idly by as the world falls apart due to my and other Christians' lack of participation doesn't cut it.
It goes both ways.
The religious will claim atheists are pushy with their ideas and vice versa. I've seen both do it. Let them at it.

I have bigger fish to fry.
Torsten · 36-40, M
@HijabaDabbaDoo exactly and thats why I asked both sides instead of just one
circleK · F
People will often mistake awareness of options as being a conversion attempt.
Torsten · 36-40, M
@circleK mostly because that is how it comes off
circleK · F
@Torsten Imagine if they ever suspected they were being unreasonable.
SW-User
It's very tiresome to see, like they don't know what respect is
Torsten · 36-40, M
@SW-User yeah very tiresome indeed and its one of those topics and debates that never goes anywhere and seems people just love arguing in circles for the hell of it
SW-User
@Torsten never ending waste of time
Torsten · 36-40, M
@SW-User exactly
CelestiaStella · 22-25, F
I don't care, until someone else does. Then it becomes my problem.
ABCDEF7 · M
Because religion is public thing. Spirituality is personal thing.

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Torsten · 36-40, M
@ABCDEF7 I can see your point with that
ABCDEF7 · M
@Torsten Thanks you got my point.

I just wrote in bold to make it like someone is forcing their believe on you. Please don't take it personally.
Torsten · 36-40, M
@ABCDEF7 nah no offence taken. I could see where you were going with it and you're correct in what you wrote
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Christianity insists everybody should be told (if I remember correctly) and the Mormons have a league table for 'most conversions' if you're not in the top 144,000 you're not going to Heaven.
I'm sure there is somebody out there who can correct me on this if I have either idea wrong in any way.
luv2fish · 70-79, M
I'm sure you've heard this before. If I'm wrong it's not a big deal. If you're wrong it is a big deal.
Sharon · F
@luv2fish
If I'm wrong it's not a big deal. If you're wrong it is a big deal.
Really?
luv2fish · 70-79, M
@Sharon I do my best to be kind to people. You're blocked!
@luv2fish She's just pointing out the flaw in Pascal's Wager.
If your faith is so strong, why do you care if others dont believe what you believe?

Because depending on your religion, you believe that people need to be saved.
If you don't try to save them by spreading the good news then what kind of selfish monster are you?
SW-User
luv2fish · 70-79, M
...because you care for them as a fellow human being.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
i definitely hear you. I have faith. If someone else doesn't, that's perfectly okay; they're on their own journey.
SW-User
Everybody has a point of view they wish to share. If it's not about religion or not being religious, it's about many other topics.
Why share? I suppose because people feel it's something worthy of trying to tell others about and the non religious will feel the same about telling religious people how wrong they are.

A lot of people do this with many things with the thought they are telling you what is for your own good and helpful.
SW-User
@Torsten I'm going to give you an example not related to religion. Last account here, people were posting a lot about covid, vaccines, etc.... many felt it necessary to keep asking others if they were vaccinated and others felt it necessary to say why NOT to be vaccinated. The same thing you are asking about, just a different topic.
I was called a virus and told to die already. Sounds a lot like how some get about religion too! lol
Torsten · 36-40, M
@SW-User exactly, people are unreasonable with certain topics and will never shift their views. Covid vaccine is certainly a good example of that and is very comparable to talking about religion.
I would say I am shocked someone told you to die already but I am not because i have seen and been involved in that type of convo so many times here nothing surprises me with how people get in them
SW-User
@Torsten Yep.... people are crazy. lol
Seriously, some are not very nice or caring how they talk to others, whatever the subject.
I try to steer clear of most things now.
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@Stereoguy
I believe everyone should hear about Jesus
They need to hear about aevery other religion too so they can make nn informed choice.
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@Stereoguy Then I see no reason for them to learn about Jesus or your preferred deity.
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Torsten · 36-40, M
@bleach some you can definitely see use religion as a crutch to lean on and hate certain people but I dont think its fair to say everyone who is religious does that.
Christianity has changed a fair bit with the times, so I cant really say much about that as I dont have much knowledge except for a few certain things there.
Other religions are certainly very different though
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Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@SW-User I don't recall it ever being spoken so bluntly but it's spot on.

 
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