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Why can't love be real

I've only been used and manipulated. Never loved. I just want to feel safe
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Most men simply exploit a woman's emotions for their own benefit. There's no love or caring despite all the pretty lies they tell. I'm sorry - I hope you find what you are looking for.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Lilliesandlight Nor will I.
goodlil666 · 51-55, M
@LadyBronte There are many women that are just cold, uncaring, manipulative, and deceitful as any man. I know from experience.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@goodlil666 Quite possibly, but I can only speak of my experience.
Carissimi · F
You can only be used if you allow it. It’s likely that you trust very easily, and most people are not trustworthy, especially men, who are mainly wanting sex, but they’ll make you think it’s love. There should be red flags at the beginning. Get to know what they are. Listen to your intuition.

I used to be a born romantic for the majority of my life. I had to reach my late 50s before I realized I was living in a dream world, and the love I thought existed, is very rare, if it exists at all.
in10RjFox · M
@Carissimi it's her dissent towards love that is in question here for she let no other enter her life or sought any other alternative. Reason why I compared her life to drug addiction kind. She can still reform and go for a new life and find new love.
Foodie60 · 31-35, M
@Carissimi very rightly explained
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@Carissimi thank you so much for your kindness 🫂
A word that should be reserved for pets and children
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@Justafantasy it's true
TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M
Because people love their parents, brothers and friends.
eMortal · M
Because true love requires a spiritual maturity not many people have.
Selfless people are good candidates if you’re looking for love. Unfortunately they get used so much so that they lose hope sometimes.
Mattypp · 56-60, M
I uave had bad experiences only love i know was my mothers
That's not unreasonable to want. I hope u find what ur looking for
Same here, except I don't need to feel safe.
I don't want to love or be loved anymore other than with my children .

I want to care and be cared about

I want to be touch and be touched

I want to feel comfort and provide it as well

I want to see and be seen

I want all this things individually, I know they make up that word, I'd rather have the individual things
Foodie60 · 31-35, M
I’m very sorry .
It’s the typical mens nature
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
I think a number of us are feeling that way lately
fanuc2013 · 51-55, F
So sorry for you!
JSmith75 · 46-50, M
I hope you can find that
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
in10RjFox · M
Love too is an art like music. Maybe you just let yourself just be the guitar that others could play and they just left you where you are after learning to play.

But you never learnt to play music.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
How sad!
Keep waiting but don’t go looking
You will meet someone, keep hoping and stop letting people manipulate you
If ever you want to chat , message me
Take care
teachmetiger210503 · 36-40, M
Love is real and it begins from home and not in some Stanger.
Wiseacre · F
Did u have any good role models?
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@Wiseacre no. My home growing up was full of hate
Wiseacre · F
@Lilliesandlight u need a healthy role model..
Bleak · 36-40, F
Love is real and it’s always in the air.
Mattypp · 56-60, M
Love can b real.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@Mattypp only for others it seems
Mattypp · 56-60, M
@Lilliesandlight i understand well has same no love
Mattypp · 56-60, M
@Lilliesandlight i know what you mean as i not loved like that either
IamBack · 31-35, M
What about your parents?
Mattypp · 56-60, M
True love is real some.men dont cheat
Dino11 · M
Mattypp · 56-60, M
@Dino11 dog is friend companion not love
Mattypp · 56-60, M
Loxe can.be and is real
Mattypp · 56-60, M

 
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