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lovelychicadee · 46-50, F
I have had 9 long term relationships where I thought at one point maybe this is the one. However I am still looking for the right one. Maybe I am too picky, I don't know.
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PhoenixPhail · M
@lovelychicadee Well, don't settle until you're absolutely certain.
There's nothing wrong with being picky. At the end of the day, it's worth it.
There's nothing wrong with being picky. At the end of the day, it's worth it.
lovelychicadee · 46-50, F
@PhoenixPhail thank you. I do believe that as well.
Court69 · M
@lovelychicadee you already know, we both do. Stop taking it and let's do this🥺🥹😍🫂😘
Fairydust · F
I never meet the right one. 😌
I just wanted to believe they were at the time.
I just wanted to believe they were at the time.
Fieona · 36-40, F
There is no such thing as a right person , my mom has been married over 4 times and i have been married twice , she always says that people change over time and it is best to part ways in best interest of every one and seek a new partner if you wish to if you are seeking fresh new companionship.
I never met the right person.
I settled for my best friend, and that turned out to be mostly a good thing,
though it has included some disasters and extremely hard work.
But if I could start over I'd have gone about finding a life-partner in a totally different way: I'd have been proactive.
It's one of the most significant choices of one's life - at least as important as education, career and where we live -
so it's idiotic to just wait for someone to come along.
If you're not in the right place at the right time to give yourself the best opportunities to meet many of the right sort, you have almost no chance of meeting him.
The other factor is working on oneself to become the best partner one can be. That means healing the unconscious issues.
I settled for my best friend, and that turned out to be mostly a good thing,
though it has included some disasters and extremely hard work.
But if I could start over I'd have gone about finding a life-partner in a totally different way: I'd have been proactive.
It's one of the most significant choices of one's life - at least as important as education, career and where we live -
so it's idiotic to just wait for someone to come along.
If you're not in the right place at the right time to give yourself the best opportunities to meet many of the right sort, you have almost no chance of meeting him.
The other factor is working on oneself to become the best partner one can be. That means healing the unconscious issues.
LadyGrace · 70-79
I never did really meet the right person. I only thought I had.
solitaire · 41-45, F
I still haven't met the right person 😂. Wonder whether I ever will :(
SalttyDawg · 70-79, M
@solitaire
Variety is good 😉
Variety is good 😉
Colonelmustardseed · 36-40
None. I’ve accepted that relationships aren’t for me.
Ducky · 31-35, F
Just one.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
Can ask you and don’t get offended ‘
A relationship. The right one .
What’s your views on that .
You live people be free to choose and not to chang there thinking .
That’s what a relationship is .
Not clinging cause everyone is caught up with the idea of a “ relationship “ and if there not in one ‘ there left out of from everybody ‘ then after some while of staying away from relationships you think I be the one with the problem over a strange trick in the mind telling you that when the case is that you don’t need a relationship to be happy .
Think clear before you go into one .
Think clear is it for the both of ye .
If it’s one way in a relationship you’ll end up goosed . Trust me on that one
A relationship. The right one .
What’s your views on that .
You live people be free to choose and not to chang there thinking .
That’s what a relationship is .
Not clinging cause everyone is caught up with the idea of a “ relationship “ and if there not in one ‘ there left out of from everybody ‘ then after some while of staying away from relationships you think I be the one with the problem over a strange trick in the mind telling you that when the case is that you don’t need a relationship to be happy .
Think clear before you go into one .
Think clear is it for the both of ye .
If it’s one way in a relationship you’ll end up goosed . Trust me on that one
bugeye · 26-30, F
pretty much got together with my high school sweetheart. we were close, the whole time, had a few dates with others before him but nothing ever came of those.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Maybe every person is the "right" person until they're not.
Sometimes you can't be with your right person because life had other plans :)
Sometimes you can't be with your right person because life had other plans :)
SW-User
My SW Mistress is the right person. All the relationships I have been in before Her pale by comparison and really don't count.
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solitaire · 41-45, F
Still have not met the right person and probably never will
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MiraRoss · 31-35, F
I've been in 4 still not found right one and never will more important things in my life
hunkalove · 61-69, M
I'm saving myself for Miley. If only she would remove that pesky restraining order.
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
So far I haven’t met him, but I’ve had 4
meggie · F
3 long term and a few shorter relationships
Stillwaiting · M
At least one less than needed
TexChik · F
Really, only one.
ArtieKat · M
Still counting.....
WhateverWorks · 36-40
I’ve had 9 long-term relationships/situstionships before I finally met my partner. This doesn’t include dating.
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WhateverWorks · 36-40
@SandWitch ok man lol…. Glad you’ve got it all figured out. Thank goodness others have your opinion to tell them what’s what or they’d be lost in this world. 🤭
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SW-User
Dozens
LoveandIntimacy · F
Two.
SW-User
None really and I haven’t met him yet or I did meet him and let him go. That’s what I thought but maybe it was just wishful thinking.
InHeaven · F
I never met the right person. Stopped having relationships when I found out its fornication 🤷♀️🤷♀️
PoetryNEmotion · F
Not many. I search for quality not quantity. I do not settle. Right? Suitable is the word.
spice1 · M
I was with several women but had 3 long term relationships before getting married.
Dirtyboyy67 · 56-60, M
As U2 sang, still haven’t found what I’m looking for🤩
Suggestmeone · M
She was first one and only one. 56 years
Stillwaiting · M
All of them, including the current one
SW-User
One serious one before I met The one
PhoenixPhail · M
I haven't met the right person yet.
exexec · 61-69, C
She was the first. I was her second.
GrinNude · 61-69, C
Umpteen. Lol Birdie
BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M
Too many
SW-User
4 and counting
WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T
still not
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Just one.
ElRengo · 70-79, M
Two.
And a life.
And a life.
20 or so.
BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F
meh..
Patriot96 · 56-60, C
Maybe 5
SW-User
Zero
SW-User
None
1
caccoon · 36-40
Five and counting
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
0
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ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@SandWitch Solid truth, appreciate that👌