Relationships Its not a good thing when someone says to you, i feel obligated to be with you or...

OlderSometimesWiser · F Best Comment

I’d be outta there faster than a toupee in a hurricane.

MarbleMarvel

That would not feel good. I wouldn't want to be with someone who felt obligated to be with me, being chosen is love.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

Id say," please don't, Really". No one wants someone acting like they could really care less.

nonsensiclesnail · F

That sounds cold, but some people don't actually know the meanings of the words they use.
I would take other indicators before reacting, like tone and other actions.

Magenta · F

I would take it as they said..

i feel obligated to be with you or to keep talking you.

They have no interest, and they are basically still doing it based on your expectations of it or the history you have together.

Sorry. 😐

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

When that is said to me, I just pick up and move on with life. When I am not wanted or appreciated then I have nothing to offer the other person.

SStarfish ·

Its not the most heart warming..

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

That’s definitely not a good thing

Jackhoff · 46-50, M

You never want to be an obligation to anyone, sorry about that.

Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F

I'd tell them not to then ghost them

LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

I'd say "Walk away, then."

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