Relationships

I’d be outta there faster than a toupee in a hurricane.

I'd feel thankful in some ways that someone could at least care enough for me that in a way they put me before their own self. And let them know that, for them to say that, it means they had to get it off their chest for me to obviously finally let them go so they can be free.

It's nice that they care, to put me first in something. But it's not so nice if the feelings of being around one another aren't completely mutual. And that instead of a friendship/relationship of joy when being around each other. It's only because they're worried or feel they owe me something. Or they know how much more invested I am in things between us than they are etc...

There's just no point after awhile. I'm not a hostage taker. This isn't a situation at gunpoint. If they felt like they had to do something because it bothers them in the back of their mind and they feel guilty if they don't. Then they're not there because they "Want" to be... And in the end it's a flawed reason to stay.

So setting them free would be the only option left from there.

That would not feel good. I wouldn't want to be with someone who felt obligated to be with me, being chosen is love.

I would be a bit offended and feel like some kind of charity case. Or maybe that they were with me because they couldn't afford to be on their own? Or that they felt like they wouldn't be able to find someone else if they left?

I would take it as they said.. They have no interest, and they are basically still doing it based on your expectations of it or the history you have together.

Sorry. 😐

That sounds cold, but some people don't actually know the meanings of the words they use.
I would take other indicators before reacting, like tone and other actions.

When that is said to me, I just pick up and move on with life. When I am not wanted or appreciated then I have nothing to offer the other person.

Id say," please don't, Really". No one wants someone acting like they could really care less.

You never want to be an obligation to anyone, sorry about that.

Seems to me that people never really are obliged to do ANYTHING, we choose what to do every day, my opinion.

Eyeno...be nice !

Nope....at my age I've no time for nonsense.

I'd tell them not to then ghost them

I’d be bummed out..

Its not the most heart warming..

Rude!

😔😔😔With friends like that, who needs enemies?

That’s definitely not a good thing

I'd let the door hit me on the ass on the way out and I'd never look back. I'm not a pity party, project or toy. I'm a human with a soul and a spine!

I'd say "Walk away, then."