You should have put more options such as “I needed someone to do my laundry for me, run errands, buy & cook the groceries & tidy up my house” because if they are being honest some of them would choose that one.
@Thandeka yeah. There was someone at work in a higher position and was told by someone who knew his niece that worked there too that he was told by his father if he didn’t marry and produce an heir that he would be cut out of his will. So he married and had one daughter. He ended up getting Lou Gehrig’s disease which took his life rather quickly by the time he was 50 years old and he didn’t live long enough to receive the inheritance.
Marriage can be a very raw deal for men. She can pull the plug for any reason and take your property, earnings and children (it's off to jail if you can't pay). And he'll get blamed for the breakup, too. More and more men are just saying no to marriage.
@Thandeka Nonsense. Lots of these men are simply blocked from seeing their kids by the mother. if this can happen to billionaire Kanye West, what chance does an average man have to overcome this? https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/kanye-west-says-security-blocked-25953515
@Thandeka Most men do act like dogs! Like working dogs. They go out and bust their asses all day, they stay loyal, they defend the ones they love, and then they get mistreated and forced to sleep outside.
Well there is no one else I want to spend my life with. I do try to make her happy, I hope I've done well. Only by having can you lose and I wanted to have her in my life. So I accept that one day there may be loss, it's a hard deal but i'll take it. The only ultimatum was from within my own heart. Other, yeah well 'other' is what makes it fun and interesting and painful and rewarding and true.
@RogueLoner I think it's what they still do. When you reach a certain age and you're not married people start asking why 😅. How would I know when I'll met the one 🤭.