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Have you ever cheated while being married to someone else?

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AbbeyRhode · F

Never have, never would.

Thinkerbell · 41-45, F

@AbbeyRhode

Me neither.

redheadmomof3 · 36-40, F

I’m not proud of it but yes I have. I have had sex with my husband’s best friend a handful of times at a party without my husband knowing

Theyitis · 36-40, M

@redheadmomof3 Is it okay if I privately ask you some questions about that?

Alisha233 · 31-35, F

@redheadmomof3 do you feel any shame?
Would you leave your husband if it where him cheating on you with your girl friends repeatedly?

redheadmomof3 · 36-40, F

@Alisha233 No I do not feel any shame. I know that sounds terrible, but it’s just how I’m wired and I have a wild side that loves sex especially the taboo of it being my husbands best friend as the one who is fucking me.

longhairedcougar · 51-55, F

I don't call it cheating 😉

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QCDog2659 · 61-69, M

@longhairedcougar I see.

Yaz69 · 36-40, M

@longhairedcougar how many times you have done such types of management, 😉

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@longhairedcougar personal wellness day perhaps?

JustGoneNow

No. We are very open with each other.

HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F

I never have and I never will. I want to keep my husband.

Lyfis2live

No point trying to sail in more than one boat. All are aware of its consequences.

My sympathies with those who spoil their Karmas treading such paths.

jennyCook · 22-25, F

I have only been with a few girls and it was never really a relationship just casual so I don't know how to answer this post

JesseInTX · 51-55, M

I was cheated on

PatKirby · M

@JesseInTX
Me too. Sucks.

TexChik · F

Never

Degbeme · 70-79, M

Nope.

Bexsy

tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F

Married men have cheated on their wives with me and I have cheated on boyfriends.

SalttyDawg · 70-79, M

@tallpowerhouseblonde
Variety is good 😉😛

tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F

@SalttyDawg It's definitely good for me.I love every second.

Renkon · 41-45, M

I've often wondered why people cheat.
Why not just call it quits if they are unhappy or dissatisfied in a relationship?
Just go with them if they find someone more endearing. Why live a farcical existence?
It's good for all involved.

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Renkon · 41-45, M

@zonavar68 So why stay in the relationship. Why be deceptive. Just confront the issue. If they can't find a solution, move on.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Renkon Shame/guilt/despair probably. A lot of couples are very afraid to tackle relationship issues.

Renkon · 41-45, M

@zonavar68 Its a small life. why waste it on drama. But I understand.

Mikeawesome1986 · 36-40, M

There may have been one time. We were getting really serious into it, and I felt like I was lagging behind. So as I passed GO, I took 300 instead of 200. I'm not proud of it, but it did help me pay more rent and kept me in the game longer. 👀

Alisha233 · 31-35, F

@Mikeawesome1986 are you talking about the monopoly game? 😆

Mikeawesome1986 · 36-40, M

@Alisha233 I was, just trying to be funny.

Alisha233 · 31-35, F

@Mikeawesome1986 it worked.

Thespis · M

Well, I've never been married. But, I've never cheated either. I really think it's such an awful thing. Like, if you want other people, just be honest about it, break up if that's what it means, and go to the other people. It's such a terrible hurt and seeing how it's hurt friends. I could never do that to someone.

BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M

Never in real and don't plan on it

Northerner · 70-79, M

No and we have been married 55 years

Eddiesolds · 61-69, M

No reason to.

beermeplease · M

not yet.....have you?

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Alisha233 · 31-35, F

@beermeplease I posted the topic question because I'm interested in learning more about people and their behaviors..why someone would do certain things, and how they can makes sense of it..😅

beermeplease · M

@Alisha233 ok cool....glad you asked the question 😁

Alisha233 · 31-35, F

@beermeplease thank you for contributing 😁

Thinkerbell · 41-45, F

No.

AlyAngel · F

RebeccaSJ · 46-50, F

Amazing how many people are in this forum but say they never have cheated.

pillowman · M

No . I was married for a little over 25 years and never cheated.

Trekker · 51-55, M

No. My ex did though.

PatKirby · M

@Trekker
Curious is that why she's an ex?

JennyGa · 46-50, F

Yes

SalttyDawg · 70-79, M

@JennyGa Sometimes you just get an itch that needs scratching 😉

Court69 · M

We took the condom off during a threesome. Is that cheating?

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Court69 · M

@Alisha233 ya we all agreed to use a condom. My partners friend took it off me, and I knew it. I let her put me inside her and my partner thought we were getting way to into each other