Let her go. She's probably married or spoken for and she got caught playing with you.

If someone wants to be in your life they will. Regardless of what someone’s going through they find a way. She’s telling you loud and clear how she feels. Ignoring that will just cause you more pain.

I'm sorry you're hurting. Many of us here have been through your experience, so we understand.

So, look around yourself. Who remains? Because they've made a choice too, just like the one who ghosted you.

And now it's up to you, your choice. I recommend choosing the ones who choose you, who respect you, and give you the truth as to what's really going on (despite how ugly the truth may be) - so you're not wandering around in limbo (the "gift" every ghost gives us).

Its happened to me. I waited months on end and eventually theyd be in touch, but then go again after a week or two. Went on for 2 years before i found out they weren't even a real person. All lies, someonelses photos,....after 3 years of what i believed was a strong friendship.
I learned a lot from it. If something or soneobe has gone or wants to go from yr life...let them. Dont waste your energy on someone who doesnt give back.

I was accused of ghosting one time because I was in the hospital with no phone or laptop for almost a month. I did have a phone with me, but there was no service in the ICU or in recovery. I had a nurse contact my friend and ask him to get me a laptop. They had Wi-Fi so I was able to contact the outside world finally.

I've hit a point in my life where I just let them go. I'm not chasing anybody. Period. They will stay in touch if that is what they want, if not .. so be it. What good is coaxing someone to be part of your life? What benefit will it be for you?

It's over and this is you mourning. Even if she returned, it would never be the same again. The magic is disappeared. I'm sorry this has happened to you.

It’s hard to just forget someone you cared for, but try to keep busy and move on. The more you try to reach out the longer you will take to heal.

Let It Go and move on. Unless this person were in the hospital with no way to communicate to the outside world, I'd let this person go.

It's hard to know why ghosting happens. It could be that there was something wrong in the relationship and she just didn't have the courage to try and fix it. It could also be that she has a boyfriend and doesn't want to risk cheating on him by keeping you in her life.

Personally, I don't bother to wait. Ghosters usually pop back up when you least expect it, so until she gets her shit together I would keep on trucking. Use the no contact rule as a means to heal and move on.

I would probably be over it in a matter of days. I dont like dwelling on negativity. So i sit with it for a couple of days, i mourn it, and then i let it go and i won't allow my mind to even think about it anymore.

I wouldn't wait. Ghosted is gone, as far as I am concerned.

I will never understand people who ghost, it’s just cruel

It’s hard moving on but maybe 3 months because that’s usually how long it takes me to stop thinking about someone

I would not

If you don't let it go you'll drive yourself crazy and possibly miss out on someone who would really care

I wouldn’t.

You deserve better.

Even if she does return, how could you trust her?

LDRs are hard.

Someone you actually know or a catfish online?

If someone ghosts you, then thats not love.

Let them go