How long would you wait for someone who you cared deeply for, had an amazing connection they suddenly ghosted you?

It hurts, stings, her deafening silence cuts through. I dont know how to moarn over it, or just wait and keep praying that she will eventually return, call or reapond to my texts or let her go.

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RubySoo · 56-60, F

Its happened to me. I waited months on end and eventually theyd be in touch, but then go again after a week or two. Went on for 2 years before i found out they weren't even a real person. All lies, someonelses photos,....after 3 years of what i believed was a strong friendship.
I learned a lot from it. If something or soneobe has gone or wants to go from yr life...let them. Dont waste your energy on someone who doesnt give back.

RogueLodyte · M

@RubySoo

Dont waste your energy on soneone who doesnt give back.

Yep. 🙂

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@RogueLodyte hello Mr! Not seen ya here for ages!! Hows you? X

RogueLodyte · M

@RubySoo I've been on and off. Social media tends to get on my nerves 😆. I'm fine, ty.
Yeah, when they suddenly don't give back, something is awry.

Banksy83 · 41-45, M

@RubySoo In all the years I've known you, your behaviour on here has been exemplary, the one who ghosted you is inferior to you Ruby

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Banksy83 thank you. Im far from exemplerary, but the 'person, persons' who ghosted me were 3 friends who all turned out to be the same person!
Gullible is a better word for me i think!

Banksy83 · 41-45, M

@RubySoo trusting more like Ruby,you did nothing wrong

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Banksy83 i know. X

Fieldmaster · 46-50, M

@RubySoo wow i am sorry about your experience, how did they person carry one with such a big fat lie, I am sorry.