How long would you wait for someone who you cared deeply for, had an amazing connection they suddenly ghosted you?

It hurts, stings, her deafening silence cuts through. I dont know how to moarn over it, or just wait and keep praying that she will eventually return, call or reapond to my texts or let her go.

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

I wouldn’t.

Fieldmaster · 46-50, M

@OlderSometimesWiser so you will move, not wait at all?

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@Fieldmaster You’ve actually met and spent time with this person in the real world?

How long has it been since she responded?

You can’t put your life on hold for something that may never happen. Not healthy at all. You deserve someone who will keep you in their life, regardless of what they’re going through.

Fieldmaster · 46-50, M

@OlderSometimesWiser yes, several times. 2 weeks now.

She was dealing with something very trajic and i hope and pray that it works, i just wish i knew she needed time of to deal with all that and i need to give her the space she needs. I don't know whether it is something I said or did or the challanges life has thrown at her. She is is amazing person/humanbeing and an incredible lover.