How long would you wait for someone who you cared deeply for, had an amazing connection they suddenly ghosted you?

I'm sorry you're hurting. Many of us here have been through your experience, so we understand.

So, look around yourself. Who remains? Because they've made a choice too, just like the one who ghosted you.

And now it's up to you, your choice. I recommend choosing the ones who choose you, who respect you, and give you the truth as to what's really going on (despite how ugly the truth may be) - so you're not wandering around in limbo (the "gift" every ghost gives us).